My husband and I found out I was pregnant with our first child in January of 2020. We were so excited but so nervous about the unexpected. Then March came and Covid hit. On top of worrying about normal new mom things, my stress was heightened with the concern for the health of my baby during a pandemic. I felt unprepared and overwhelmed with how much I needed to learn. After much discussion, we decided a doula would be a good fit to help educate us on childbirth and alleviate some of our anxieties.
On our first zoom call, I met with a group of doulas, and after speaking with them, felt drawn to Ashley's calm energy. Once hired, Ashley took all the necessary precautions (getting tested, wearing a mask, removing shoes, washing hands - all the fun covid requirements) we asked for to feel comfortable about meeting in person. The lessons were amazing and so personalized to us as a couple. Ashley really incorporated my husband as well, making him feel included and not like he was just on the sidelines. She taught us both so much, but most importantly, made me feel I had a voice and the knowledge to stand by my birth plan (that she also helped with).
Ashley was available for anything I needed until my delivery and even prepared me with some hospital bag goodies that would help keep me calm (like an essential lavender oil diffuser). She checked in post-partum as well, and not just on baby, but on me, bringing homemade remedies to help with the healing process. Ashley truly was an important part of our birth story and we're grateful to have had her as our doula. read more