My review is too long for the character limit so I've attached photos as a replacement and a summary. I was a "client". This is my experience and my experience only. I wish others would share their stories, the ones that were more traumatizing than mine but those are theirs and theirs alone. I hope anyone reading this the best of luck in their journey and I pray you find help, good help, wherever you do decide to go.
Summary:
1. Encouraged, by my therapist Katie, to believe I was gay, who then encouraged me to admit my supposed feelings to another therapist, Kimber, who even went as far as to humor those feelings with a hug and a suggested meeting, alone, in the office before my final departure after I gave her a note "confessing my feelings" until she feared her job was at stake and then "rejected" me via email and went as far as to tell me to get help. I even told Katie, my therapist, via email about my actions encouraged by her, and she never spoke to me again. Convenient.
2. My therapist, Katie, implied my mother was homophobic via email after she, in a sense, "decided" my sexuality and yet my mother never even stated she'd be upset or unaccepting if I was.
3. Witnessed many clients be threatened with a loss of insurance if they didn't eat and made fun of for their behaviors by other aides, like Terrence, whom had his own eating disorder behaviors but were justified by stating "my eating habits don't control me", there a preference, and yet he was stacking his mushrooms along the side of a plate. I guess that's an example of not being in control. By the way, all aides when they eat HAVE TO EAT ALL OF THEIR FOOD, NO EXCEPTIONS, in front of you. He did not do that.
4. I attempted suicide 2x while in their care, no one cared to respond properly once made aware, just made assumptions that I tried to end my life with a belt "because I was wearing one"
5. Was threatened with a $100k bill that was due to their submission error with insurance, even after I was approved by their staff during an approval meeting done every week.
6. Friends told me their experiences of being sexually assaulted while in residential by upper staff as well as being embarrassed and having their therapists break hippa, Kimber, in front of other clients.
7. I was told by the nutritionist to get over my fear to just stop my thoughts, while being scoffed as if I was pathetic.
8. I was fed the same amounts as those anorexic which pushed me passed multiple plateaus. I'm actually an overeater but due to a horrible bout of IBS and anxiety I became terrified, underweight and developed ARFID which led to my unexplained weight-loss. They wouldn't listen so they fed me like I had a desire to lose weight and it only fed my overeating.
9. If I didn't eat I was then fed dairy supplements that caused me to have more diarrhea, which was the trigger at the moment for my temporary ARFID (fixed by my outside psychiatrist). I even asked for non-dairy supplements, like I had at UCLA psych, and my therapist laughed and said this isn't one of those places. If you also don't eat all of what they provide or at all they threatened to tell your insurance and stated by doing so insurance would not help us in the future when we truly needed help because we were not accepting "the help" we were being provided there.
10. I was made to feel guilty because I got triggered by a chocolate meal and started to cry because I was afraid to get diarrhea, which was the cause of my weight-loss and loss of appetite. A counselor, then went around the table asking how everyone felt before and after the meal (ie. my meltdown), bypassing my feelings, and it created an implication that I was to blame for their lack of desire to eat chocolate.
11. I am also now 215 lbs, I've only ever been 150 for years until the traumatic 2021-2022. They made my body terrified of losing weight, according to doctors, as well as mistakenly encouraged my overeating so I am now stuck at this weight and growing.
12. I was fed lamb without being told, while being quarantined (2nd time). I would never knowingly due such a thing, but they forgot to let me know since I was sequestered in my room. I only found out when I was released from quarantine and I mentioned how horrible to have lamb on the menu and a caregiver questioned me since I already ate it. She was in shock when she realized the chef nor her told me the day we had gyros that there was lamb. I was devastated.
13. Many were misdiagnosed with an ED when they had other mental health concerns that were not ED (body image) related but a form of arfid due to other mental health concerns. This was ignored and overlooked, because anyone there had to fit the same mold, and therefore forced many with fear to eat foods they would gag on or vomit back up.
Saddest part of it all, every single one of them that caused myself and other pain got away with. They are even working at other firms as licensed MFTS, continuing to spread misinformation and pain. read more