I used to have a huge fear of labor and delivery... and never in a million years would have thought I'd explore having a natural birth, but when I hit my third trimester the idea of an epidural started to freak me out. I looked into hiring a doula, met Samantha, felt instantly calmed by her, and by some stroke of luck.. was able to hire her last second because the other mom that she had booked for our date had the baby early!
After our first meeting, my husband and I already felt like hiring her was so worth it. She helped me make sense of my birth preferences, helped walk us through how it would all go, coached my husband on how to support me, talked us through ways to enlist family support post partum, etc.
The actual birth didn't go at all as planned. My water broke early, I was in denial that the baby was coming. She politely guided us to shower, pack the car and treat it like it was the real deal. She talked us through every step we were going through, was having my husband send her my contractions, gave us advice on what I could advocate for to have my birth the way I wanted it. She was amazing.
I hired her for the delivery and it crazy enough ended up being the part of this whole process that I needed her the least in. My birth ended up being medicated and I only had to push for 18 minutes. Despite that, I would hire her a million times over and couldn't be more grateful that she was in the room with us. She took pictures of the birth that I will cherish forever and ever (I didn't know she would do that), she helped guide me through my first nursing session successfully, she took pictures of my husband holding our baby for the first time, and she even ran and got us food so that my husband didn't have leave us... I was STARVING. It was absolutely amazing to have her there, I cried when she said bye.
Finally, the post partum was another place I didn't know i needed her, but yet again she was there. She checked in on me.. more than once.. and I didn't respond... I was really tired and in a lot of pain so I didn't have the energy to respond. So she went above and beyond and checked in with my husband. I ended up talking with her and she persuaded me to get the help I needed. Specifically she prevented me from following my doctors advice of pumping to alleviate my engorgement issue, which would have made the problem worse, and navigated me to my life savior of a lactation consultant. She also stopped by to see how we were, and made us feel sane with our colicky baby. She was so gentle and sweet and was around if I had a random question or two here and there.
I could go on and on about how appreciative I am. But all you really need to know is that I loved my birth experience. I feel so grateful that Samantha was there. If I have another baby, I will be hiring as soon as I know my due date. I would trust anyone that Samantha says is good. Hire Windy City doulas, they are worth every penny. read more