For my son's PreK year, (3 yrs), the teachers in 2011 and environment were great and very honorable. HOWEVER, it is the Management department and method in this facility that is abhorred. As much as my son and I loved the teachers, the management practices were so intolerable that I often spoke up, (as many parents forget that they can do). During after-care, a friend, (who had often pushed and shuved my son when he tried to hug her), reached over to interfere with my son's toy. My son was defensive and her hand was consequently hurt. I fully agreed to refrain from using after-care TEMPORARILY, since I know how I'd feel if my son was hurt (which he had been in the past, but there was no corrective action then). When management continued to extensively bar him from after-care beyond 9 business days (close to 2 wks), I spoke up and expressed the loss of income this was causing, since now i had to stop working at 3pm and pick my son up, instead of using the services available to me as a client. I also reminded them of when my son got hurt, through no fault of his own, yet I didn't make a big stink of things. As a result, they indicated they are seeking advice from their legal dept and my son (and I) got expelled on that day, 1 month before the school year ended. This alone is a reportable and tragic event out of this private school. They committed to reimbursing our 1 month balance and hefty deposit for the successive year, but then held it all back long term, claiming their accountant was on vacation. Everyone that i tell this sad tale to cannot believe that any professional school would not know how to work out the situation and instead barred a child indefinitely from class.
Also, there was another child in the same after-care who would maliciously kick toys being used by other babies and toddler, (knowing the toddlers weren't as responsive), and knocking chairs off the tables at clean up time. No action seemed to be taken for this and unfortunately peers were learning this behavior. All I could do was ask the favor of the teacher to redirect my son from spending time with this obvious bully. So upon our expulsion, I was perplexed at the difference in approach between my son's 1 heated incident versus continuous bullying and mischief, - but then it became clear...
...we never donated to this nonprofit institution, more than the hefty tuition. As other reviews indicate, the cost of such schools are already a pretty-penny, which I found worth the teachers and equipment. However, the other problem was the incessant prodding for further donations in the name of being a not-for-profit organization. In my opinion, the extra funds seem to pay for the unnecessary huge administrative dept and the actual fund-raising events, instead of the kids. As time went on, if one didn't participate in donating, you were singled out with letters directly to you and made to feel that you were taking advantage of the other parents who could afford to donate a little more and attend the fund-raising festivities. Since we couldn't participate in extra donations, I must wonder if that influenced the expulsion of my son. If they were to deny that, then I'm still quite certain my son WOULD NOT have been expelled if we HAD donated. Shame on them.
We continue to support the montessori way, just elsewhere. Some of these private schools forget that we are clients and not inmates, and it is the children that suffer from pure business-driven philosophy. Please don't forget to speak up if you have suggestions or even commendations for any institution. Good schools would appreciate it and recognize a vitality in conscious parenting. read more