I used to follow Violet on Facebook, however, I stopped once she made it clear you could only reply to posts on her page if your opinion matched hers. I think it's important for groups to have a mix of thoughts and feedback; this is what helps us expand our thought process. It isn't necessary to agree with every person's viewpoint, but it is beneficial to allow people to have different viewpoints without being judgmental. Edit: This is in response to Violet's response to my post. Violet, I responded to a lady on your Facebook page that was asking for honest feedback. A friend of hers asked her when she became a lesbian. She was curious if it was her short hair that led to her friend asking her that. She also made the comment "if I grow it out will he come". I replied to her and told her that men are generally attracted to femininity and that longer hair is generally preferred by men. I also told her that growing her hair out wouldn't necessarily mean she would get a boyfriend. I said this because her hair may have nothing to do with her being single. Too often we think that if we lose 10 pounds or grow our hair out or get lip filler that we will find a boyfriend. The truth is that if we build our confidence and get out a bit more we increase our odds of meeting someone. You responded to my post to her by saying that I have a limited way of thinking and that my response was negative. There was nothing negative about me saying that growing long hair won't ensure a boyfriend. I think it would have been more beneficial for you to post your thoughts rather than put my opinions down. I also don't understand your response to my review on here. My response to the original poster on your Facebook page didn't discuss gender or sexual orientation. This leads me to believe that you are hiding behind "supporting a cause" when in actuality you seem to have an intolerance for differing views. read more

I was a client of her Queens of Pleasure program. This woman is a scam artist and has no qualifications to be a relationship coach. Prior to enrolling in the program, she told me the course had over 100 hours of content and we would receive group coaching calls twice a week. In reality, the whole course is just a bunch of meditations and there isn't 100 hours of content. In addition, she stated we would receive 2 group coaching calls a week. Later, after I joined, she decided to cut it short to 1 coaching call a week. She did not ask for my feedback or anyone else's feedback. When I told her I was disappointed as I paid her with the expectation of 2 group coaching calls, she didn't care and dismissed my response completely. She also told me prior to taking my money that she would not charge for me for the time I was in the program due to COVID. And would only start counting the official coaching time, after the pandemic. In reality, after I paid her, she never honored her word and there was never any extra time. On the sales call, I explained to her my intimacy fears due to past hurt I have experienced. She told me she believed I had an avoidant attachment. And then in a group coaching session on Zoom, which I have recorded, she stated "avoidant people have issues with figuring out whether or not they want a relationship...They need time...And they may never wake up to wanting it...Avoidant people don't feel guilt." She told me numerous times in the program and I even have an email where she states, she "had no idea how to coach me." I wonder why she took my money then? Also when I told her that I would like to work on my confidence, she responded by stating that "men are intimidated by confident women, so you don't need to work on that." Honestly, she is a terrible coach. Any time you ask a question, she says listen to one of the "meditations" in her program or write down a list of positive affirmations and read them over. I listened to the meditations over and over again and they never resolved any my issues. She has read a bunch of self-help books on relationships and a yoga teaching teaching certificate and branded to herself as a "relationship coach." Please save your money and stay far away!!! FYI she took a program called Clients on Demand that teaches you how to sell group coaching programs. She has basically mastered sales and knows how to exploit the vulnerabilities of women who are single and feeling lonely and anxious about getting into a relationship or married. She is basically just a sales person. Her coaching is absolutely terrible! Anytime I asked her specific feedback, she would say do one of the meditations. In terms of emotionally unavailable men, she said keep listening to the meditation on not attracting emotionally unavailable. She is a terrible coach. And if you ask her a question or how to resolve an issue you are experiencing, she tells you to do one of the meditations in the program. The whole course is basically meditations and her coaching is "do the meditations" she created or write out a list of affirmations and read them over. She ripped me off $2500. I quit her program in the middle (despite paying the full amount upfront) because I was experiencing intense emotional and physical damages. I had to hired a Psychologist to undue the damage she caused me and had to see a Physician because one of her practices caused me damage to my physical health. The psychologist confirmed that the work she is doing is damaging and unhelpful. I emailed her later requesting a refund. She fought with me and told me it's my fault and would not offer me a refund. After telling her, I would take legal action if I don't get a refund, she emailed me back and asked me to provide her my PayPal account and stated that she would refund the $2500. I waited weeks for the payment but never received it. I emailed her asking why I hadn't received the refund back. She then emailed me back saying she "changed her mind" and wanted to speak to me over Zoom before providing me a full refund. I was annoyed but agreed to speak to her over Zoom. I took off from work and got on the Zoom call with her. On the Zoom call, she told me she would be willing to refund me $500 if I signed a waiver for release of all legal claims. I told her "no way" and got off the call. She basically wasted my time! She is unprofessional, unethical and manipulative. PLEASE STAY AWAY FROM THIS COACH AT ALL COSTS! Also the reviews on her website are not even real clients. And if you see the video testimonials most of them are not even in relationships after her coaching anyway. I wasted so much money and the damages I have experienced are 10x the cost of the program. At this point, I will be pursuing legal action against her. I used a pseudonym as I don't want my real name listed on here. However, she knows my real name and who I am as I have emailed her about the issues I stated in this review and she doesn't care to resolve anything read more

Violet seemed very nice in the beginning of our conversation. She asked me questions and I answered. She tapped into a few things that she was hearing from me and explained how she could help me and expressed what issues she felt I had in my relationships. I do admit that some of what she said made sense, however, once she told me what she charged for her service, I realized it just was not an amount I could handle at the moment. She did begin to let me know she could make it slightly more affordable, but I ended up just letting her know it was an amount I simply was not comfortable spending in my current situation. I even suggested that I would need to come back to her when my financial situation was more in order, even though I knew the discounted price would no longer be available. This is when things took a turn for the worse. She began attempting to make me feel bad for not trusting her and using my lack of trust of her as the reason why my relationships are always going downhill. When I agreed that yes, she was correct that some of what she said in regards to me did seem true or very possible, but that there were other things she said that did not quite resonate with me. I simply was not convinced that she truly understood me enough for me to just hand over hundreds, let alone thousands of dollars to her and it just wasn't a realistic venture for me right now. Now, I am in total agreement that if you limit your beliefs in what you are capable of, you limit your life. I am not disputing that! But, how she continued to handle the conversation from this point is just inexcusable! She insisted that it was certainly up to me and that she didn't want to argue the point, yet she slowly started belittling me, telling me that she doesn't understand how I can not see spending that kind of money on my love life as realistic, yet she felt that other decisions I had made in my life were completely unrealistic. And even though I agreed with her, she actually got even more angry with me and continued with the guilt trip that obviously I was not serious about finding true love and happiness. Realizing the conversation was going nowhere and actually downhill fast, I apologized to her, saying that I was sorry to have wasted her time and that I would not have if I had any idea of the amount it was going to cost. She expressed that it was ok and it was just simply her job to try to help, yet in the same breath, continued to try to insist that she knew I could come up with the money somehow if I really wanted to. Getting very tired, I eventually thanked her for her time again and her knowledge, but insisted that I just didn't want to have that kind of financial responsibility and I just wasn't convinced that the program was for me since she was using certain sales tactics on me that I was well aware of. Then she used the "f" word, telling me that she doesn't give a "f" what I do, she's just trying to help me. I still remained calm, but very surprised at how she was responding and still attempted to let her know that it was nothing against her and I did not mean to offend her. She continued on and even used the "s" word before I finally told her thanks, but no thanks. My thing is, if she would have calmly said that I could certainly comeback at a later date, but at the regular price and left it at that, I may have actually gone back to her later! But because she was so pushy and got straight up vulgar and rude, I will never deal with her again. I have been in sales and customer service all of my life and that was one of the most unprofessional displays I have come across in a long time. I gave her 2 stars since she did seem to pinpoint a few issues from my past. read more

Working with Violet has changed my life completely, not just with regards to dating and relationships but in every aspect of my life. After my initial phone call with her, I was amazed at how closely she listened and responded to everything I shared about my challenges with dating and relationships. I wish I knew about this resource sooner but I'm just grateful I came across Violet and the Pleasure Path when I did. The work we did together was completely transformative, resulting in drastic shifts in my approach to dating, communication, and in overall self-worth and self-confidence. The work we did was not just dating strategy but also a deepening of self-love, self-respect and establishing healthy self-care practices and boundaries. I did the course work but often needed more time to revisit the content and repeat a lot of the practices, because there is so much packed into this rich program. I joined a lot of group calls which were very helpful and I now have an ongoing support group in addition to the support from Violet and her assistants Elizabeth and Tammera. Tammera brings a spiritual support to the program and focuses on heart opening practices and being connected to your heart while Violet often supports with strategy and communication. This decision to invest in myself has been the best decision I have made and I'm so grateful I chose to do this work now. read more

I found Violet's program by pure coincidence. I was working on a project for grad school and I don't know how I came upon​ the free live webinar and I couldn't stop listening. Something inside me clicked and I know I had to reach out. The following week I had an​ introduction call with one of her lovely coaches, Tammera and everything that we discussed resonated with me so much that my heart knew this was the program for me. This program and the wonderful constant support I received allowed me to heal many old patterns that were coming up for me and relationships. I loved all the meditations and embodiment practices which are key to integrate into one's self and help with breaking old beliefs. I am deeply grateful for her help, guidance, and continuous support. This program is worth the time and we can all become better women in our relationships. I wish I would have found this sooner, but it is always the perfect time. I am glad I was able to do this and complete it and have so much peace in my heart and in my life. Thank you, ​Violet!! read more

I met Violet rather fortuitously at the beginning of the year via a Facebook live. I say fortuitously, but the truth is that I didn't know, at that time, how deeply I needed what she had to offer: a multi-dimensional, holistic approach to loving yourself and a partner by integrating the mind, body, and spirit. She incorporates teachings that are at once ancient and modern in their breadth, and she and her wonderful team (powerhouse coach Tammera Logan and assistant Elizabeth) make you feel truly looked after from your first call. Frankly, Violet's course has been the best decision I've ever made for my love life and the best decision I've made for my own personal enrichment in the last couple of years. Her course is a must for any single woman desirous of rising above the cacophony of modern dating advice in order to experience true abundance in love as well as in other areas of her life. What's more, the community of women in the course make the journey all the sweeter. read more

If you're stuck in old relationship patterns or feel discouraged I'd suggest talking to Violet and see how you connect to your vision when you're on the phone with her. You will know if you're pulled to take this step for yourself and if it's the right time. I'm SO thankful I found this course at the time I did. It was perfect timing. I could have let another year go by in an unavailable relationship. There is a lot of support from the group and that momentum encourages you to take a step each day for yourself and the future you envision! Now I'm in a healthy, loving, kind relationship and I continue to grow everyday. read more

I connected with Violet and The Pleasure Path through a webinar I saw advertised on Facebook. I ended up doing a 1-on-1 consultation with Violet a few weeks later when I was going through a rough patch in my relationship. I was impressed by how attentive she was, asking thoughtful questions and genuinely interested in helping me get what I wanted in my relationship. We connected again several weeks later once that relationship ended and I embarked on a journey of self love and reflection through the Queens of Pleasure program. It's 12 weeks of intense, but fun and empowering, practices and teachings to help you get clear about who you are, your foundation of love and what it is you want in a partner. It was a very new experience but one I'm glad I tried. Violet is super accessible and understanding and really good at spurring you on to be your best self without being overbearing. With Violet, her team and the community of women she creates (fellow "queens"), I felt really supported in my journey of attracting and maintaining lasting love. Definitely a worthwhile course. read more