I am deeply saddened and disappointed. My family genuinely hoped to make Heights Church our church…read morehome, but our experience has been profoundly discouraging. Scripture reminds us that "Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart" (1 Samuel 16:7). Unfortunately, this church seems far more focused on outward appearance than inward transformation.
The excessive spending on extravagant Christmas decorations was troubling. Rather than showcasing the church building, it would have been more Christ-like to meet real needs--perhaps providing Christmas trees, food, or assistance to families struggling during the season. Jesus taught that caring for the poor is not optional: "Whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me" (Matthew 25:40). When spectacle replaces service, the mission of the Church is compromised.
One of the most disturbing moments was hearing a pastor speak as though she herself was assured of heaven while implicitly condemning others. Scripture is clear that judgment belongs to God alone: "There is only one Lawgiver and Judge" (James 4:12). We are also reminded that "Not everyone who says to Me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven" (Matthew 7:21). No one truly knows the state of another's soul, and humility--not spiritual superiority--should mark church leadership.
This experience reflects a larger issue within American church culture, particularly among megachurches. There is a glaring lack of financial transparency. Churches should willingly report and audit their finances, as Scripture calls believers to walk "above reproach" (2 Corinthians 8:20-21). At Heights Church, there appears to be nepotism, unclear salaries, and no accountability regarding how much actually serves the community versus sustaining unhealthy spending habits.
The food pantry is the one truly commendable ministry, and it genuinely serves the local community. However, good works alone do not excuse compromised doctrine or moral blindness. Jesus warned the church in Revelation: "Because you are lukewarm--neither hot nor cold--I am about to spit you out of my mouth" (Revelation 3:16). This church tells people what they want to hear, not what they need to hear. Scripture instructs pastors to "preach the word...correct, rebuke and encourage--with great patience and careful instruction" (2 Timothy 4:2), yet biblical truth here is watered down to attract a wealthier, more comfortable demographic.
There is also an unhealthy culture of overworked volunteers, unquestioning loyalty, and what feels like a cult-like mentality. Jesus warned against religious leaders who burden others while exempting themselves: "They tie up heavy, cumbersome loads and put them on other people's shoulders" (Matthew 23:4). Charity is celebrated, but morality and humility are lacking. Even secular corporations give generously--yet generosity without integrity is meaningless (1 Corinthians 13:3).
Many sermons appear borrowed or spoken verbatim, sometimes involving false personal stories and alleged conversations with God. Scripture is severe in its warning: "Not many of you should become teachers...for we who teach will be judged more strictly" (James 3:1). Teaching falsely or carelessly is not a minor offense.
Does this church fear God? Or do they fear People?
Overall, I am heartbroken. I am far from perfect and do not claim moral superiority. But after years in church, this stands as one of my greatest disappointments. If you are looking for a church that prioritizes status, waters down Scripture, affirms comfort over conviction, and focuses on earthly values rather than eternity--"storing up treasures on earth" instead of heaven (Matthew 6:19-21)--then this may be the place for you. But for those seeking truth, repentance, humility, and genuine relationship with God, I cannot recommend it. "They have a form of godliness but deny its power" (2 Timothy 3:5). And that is the most devastating part of all.
May God be with us!
Matthew 3:11
2 Timothy 3:1-5