I graduated from SJNMA in 2002; I hope my story provides some insight to those of you reading.
If you would've asked me in June of 2002, as I left St. John's as a newly minted High School graduate, what I thought of the Academy, I would have told you it was hell on earth and that my parents were cowards for sending me there.
If you would've asked me in June of 2004, as a struggling college sophomore contemplating dropping out of school to join the military, what I thought of the academy, I would have told you St. John's was to blame for my academic and personal struggles.
If you ask me today, as a 30 year old attorney, husband, and soon to be father what I think of the academy, I would tell you that my time at SJNMA was the most difficult years of my life, but more importantly, that those three years saved me and that without the academy , I would not be half the man I am today.
I left for SJNMA in 1999 as a lazy, arrogant, and entitled poster child for the systemic ADHD plague of the late 1990s. I blamed everyone else for my shortcomings: blaming genetics for my inability to excel athletically; blaming my parents for my social akwardness; and blaming my teachers for my academic struggles.
I wish i could tell you that SJNMA was the magic bullet that cured everything, but it wasn't. It was three years of struggle. Three years of difficult self reflection, self assessment, and three long years with a steady dose of real world truth. Not an easy pill to swallow for a spoiled kid from suburban Detroit.
It wasn't until I was 22 or 23 that I truly came to appreciate what the academy did for me, or the sacrifice my parents made in sending me there. It was at that time I realized that the academy wasn't a solution to the problems I was facing in life, but rather, that the academy equipped me with the skills to overcome those problems and excell beyond the expectations that even I had set for myself.
On my graduation day, I felt like a prisoner on his parole day; and I swore I would never go back. This June was my 13th Reunion weekend, and only the second in which I haven't made the 7 hour drive to attend.
Parents, if you're reading this whole contemplating sending your son to SJNMA please accept this parting thought. It won't be easy; not for you and certainly not for your son. But, few things in life worth doing ever are. It may take years, but I guarantee you this, if you choose to send your son to SJNMA, he will be better for it, and someday, he will thank you for it.
If you would like to know more about my experience at SJNMA, I encourage you to contact me directly.
Gregory B. Paddison, Esq. (SJNMA '02)
Asst. Corp. Counsel for the City of Detroit
(313) 237-0435
Paddisong@detroitmi.gov read more