In the past few weeks, I have taken a 20 hr online mediation training with Dan Simon, and was then inspired to participate in his 40 hr Divorce and Family Mediation. I am now patting myself on the back for making these decisions, as I have learned of a way to communicate that is quite different from my old ways - to reflect and not to direct, aka, insert my own "wisdom." This means to follow and make HEARABLE what one person is trying to say to someone, anyone, themselves, even when it is the same sentence. Clarity for oneself and seeing another perspective can follow. These can make room for problem solving. Based on decades of successful experience Dan fully stands for this method of mediating. His reasoning is solid, and he is so skilled at finding the exact phrase to repeat to the speaker that it can change a old dynamic in an instant. The skills he is teaching are not only limited to mediations because these communication skills are useful in daily life - between parents and children, married couples, employers and employees and so on. First the relationship, then the problem-solving. People want and have the capacity for self-determination. read more

This is the third mediation training seminar I have taken with Dan (30 hours; 40 hours; and this one, 20 hours). Every time I attend a seminar that Dan hosts (the first two in-person in St. Paul, and this one by Zoom), I feel that my skills and confidence as a mediator increase. There always is more to learn and so much to remember. Repetition never presents a barrier. Each mediation cohort is unique, and the diverse participant groups play an essential role in the teaching/learning process, as do the guest speakers and mediation coaches that Dan always invites. Dan coordinates the agenda, the helpful course materials, the links to demonstrative mediations, and the presentations, and ensures that learning unfolds in a way that is understandable, practical, and easy to learn and to implement. For people who are interested in learning about the transformative mediation process, per se, or as a complement to other mediation processes (such as facilitative), I think for the money, but even more for Dan's affirming guidance, Simon Mediation encourages and supports learning both well and enjoyably. read more

I took Dan Simon's Transformational Mediation Course in 2013. It was a major game changer in my legal practice. In fact, I decided, soon after, to become a Certified Divorce Coach. The element of mediation so often missed, in my opinion, is just what Dan offers. Learning to allow people to be heard, from their perspective, about what has occurred can create major transformations in how the parties can negotiate. It doesn't mean all conflict is resolved, but may allow people who otherwise could not communicate at all to effectively co-parent children or resolve long-standing business disputes. Often, the conflict is not really about whatever surface issue exists. Dan's training teaches how to reach people so they share the root of the conflict issue and create mind shifts for themselves and the other party to begin to move forward. I use his training in my divorce coaching practice almost every day. www.DearDivorceCoach.com read more

I am fortunate to have taken Dan's two week, two hour a day training on Transformative Mediation. I work as a mediator in several different contexts, both in Courts and private practice, and found the philosophy and techniques invaluable. Dan's training comprehensively explains the background concepts while also focusing on skill building. Dan leaves plenty of time for both discussion as well as exploration of why, how, and even why not! Has this training changed the way I mediate? Absolutely -- I am not a "pure" Transformative Mediator at the moment but my practice has changed and I am on a path to continually build my skills and refine my approach. Dan is a gifted instructor, a professional with a strong commitment to Transformative Mediator, and wise role model. Whether you are a mediator in training, a neophyte or an established practitioner, Dan course offers a great deal. read more

I took Dan's 'Divorce and Family Mediation Training' in the Spring of 2015. This was a pretty intensive 40-hour training workshop that encompassed a broad range of related mediation topics including the transformative approach. I would not only recommend this course to anyone interested, but I would take it again myself as a refresher. It is immediately apparent that Dan is passionate about his work and in training others in his style. As opposed to just merely attending training, Dan makes you a part of his training, and the take-aways that one can put to use, are better as a result. I would highly recommend this mediation training to anyone interested in learning how to mediate and/or communicate more effectively. read more

Dan Simon knows how to take the subject of transformative mediation and teach it so well you can apply the material to everyday life. You will leave his Minneapolis, MN or Los Angeles, CA training (Yes, he still offers his training in BOTH locations) a better mediator. You will find these skills translate ALL aspects of your life. I have a substantial Financial Advisory practice and found the course applicable to a broad range of attendees - attorneys, future mediators, business conflict managers and even judges! I can be contacted to confirm my recommendation at bmachtig@machtig.net. Brett Machtig Author, Registered Investment Advisor and a Dan Simon-Trained Mediator Bloomington, MN read more

I took this cle with Dan last spring and as the Yelp bot says it, "it was as good as it gets"! It was conveniently located in St Paul at the University Club which was a pleasant place with plenty of amenities. Dan's presentation was thoughtful, fun, and interactive mixed in with some didactic instruction, which helped keep things lively and interesting. It also supported interacting with other participants, which truly enriched the experience. I'm looking forward to taking more courses with Dan in the Twin Cities because I think the training will be useful for my creative small business/non profit practice. Patty Zurlo www.zurlolawoffice.com read more

I participated in Dan Simon's 40 hour Transformative Mediation Course in 2016. The cross section of professionals attending the training created very dynamic discussions about how this information will inform our practices. As an LICSW practicing within the school system I am now better equipped to support parents in establishing a healthy communication foundation which will serve them long after their children have left my building. Dan is incredibly passionate about the transformative approach & after taking the course, you will be too! read more

Simon Mediation's Transformative approach to mediation is a delightful guide full of great opportunities to learn theory and practice for those who are either looking to be updated on the recent changes to Rule 114 or for those who are looking to start a career in mediation. The best part of the training is the fact that Dan is able to bring a rich variety of professionals together to both guest lecture and be a part of the training. Either way, you leave with a wider network and access to a vast wealth of resources. I have been transformed! read more

I took Dan's transformative mediation CLE in the spring of 2016. I found Dan to be a good teacher, an effective mediator, and always well-prepared. The transformative mediation process is excellent. Getting to the root of the problem really makes it easier for all of the issues to get resolved. I believe in the transformative mediation process, and Dan made it easy for me to learn it. It was a great course, and I highly recommend it. read more

Dan provided an excellent training experience, despite the pandemic restrictions and everything being done remotely and still didn't miss a beat! I learned tons about the transformative model that I've incorporated both professionally and personally. I enjoyed role playing the most because it helped me to gain perspective of both the Mediator and Participant so that was pretty cool. I also had a lot of fun and met some really good people. read more

What a delight Dan Simon is!! He makes mediation into a world changing and deeply human activity. If you want to be a more conscious communicator, have an experience of insight into your own process and learn about conflict resolution and transformation, you cannot have a better guide. I highly recommend taking any or all of his workshops. In Los Angeles or Minneapolis, communities are lucky to have access to him. read more

I just finished my second mediation training with Dan Simon. The first was in Minnesota and the second in California. I went back because the experience was so good. Not only did I learn a lot about mediation but Dan was able to make the training a wonderful group experience. The best part of the training was the practice mediation sessions. We were able to practice and were given valuable and helpful feedback. read more

It's not every day that I meet such a kind, compassionate, and humble human being who genuinely wishes to help other people and do good in the world. Dan's course in transformative mediation is interesting, informative, entertaining, and filled with lots of laughs. I must admit, I went into the training a skeptic, but I left a believer! I was transformed! Take this course, you will be glad you did! read more

I took Dan's virtual training on the transformative approach to mediation-- which was an energizing and rich introduction to the topic. He is a personable, engaging, and adaptable instructor, and I walked away from the 20-hour course with a firm foundation on the framework and practice of transformative mediation. I would highly recommend this training and Dan's services. read more

I was a non-attorney participant in Dan's mediation training program. It was well paced for participants from all backgrounds, informative, and with important case study experiences that taught me much about how to be an effective conflict mediator. Dan is an expert in this area. Enjoyed learning transformative mediation with him. Highly reccomend. read more

My training with Dan in the Twin cities was fantastic. His teaching is easy to follow and answers questions in a very clear and empowering manner. I would recommend Dan's classes to everyone interested in increasing communication skills as well as mediation. Thanks Dan for all of your help getting me in your class as well. Betsey Monticello, Mn read more

Dan Simon's Transformative Mediation course was fantastic! I learned and practiced many new skills that will benefit my practice daily. The week long course is intense but an amazing opportunity to learn and network with a wide cross section of professionals. I highly recommend this course for any professional working with people and conflict. read more

As someone who is passionate about the value of mediation, I believe Dan is as skilled as anyone I have encountered in setting a stage for parties to have genuine meaningful conversation. His passion and knowledge are evident. I wholeheartedly endorse Dan Simon as a mediator and an instructor. read more