What a joke this guy is. At my wifes request, we paid 900 for a 2 hour session.He was supposed to talk to us individually then as a couple. He didnt do that.I had to sit there and listen to my wife make a case against me for an hour and a half. Then when I got to talk, he said to me, quit bargening and you need alot of help. Then his cohort Tami tried to get me to pay 10 grand for a 6 day retreat to help me. She was like a salesman trying to get me to buy a car. Sad because when you are so desperate to save your marriage you will do anything. read more

Dr Rob came to our two hour non-refundable $1200 expert consultation 15 minutes late and didn't read any of our background we had sent in advance. such a waste of our time and money, with no compassion or empathy never asking us what brought us there or how we were feeling going into the meeting, what we Hope to get out of it, or what's going on that we would resort to this last ditch effort recommend by his sidekick Tami. Rather he asked random questions, self absorbed liked to hear himself talk and even judgmental. I do not recommend this guy at all. read more

I attended SILA four years ago after many failed attempts with different therapists. Those failures were on me. I wasn't ready to be honest with myself. Dr. Rob and the entire team helped me surrender, face my reality, and begin the real work of recovery work I'm still committed to today. I've done military boot camp before, but this was far tougher, because it had to be. There was no hiding there. I couldn't fool anyone, and eventually I stopped trying to fool myself. That experience helped me become the man I am today. I'm also deeply grateful for the ongoing support, the free alumni meetings twice a week and the incredible amount of free resources available long after the program ends. When I read some negative reviews, they only reinforce my belief: if someone says this treatment doesn't work, it may be because they weren't ready to be fully honest or to truly do the work. Recovery demands that level of commitment. read more

If you are looking for a place that is honest about billing practices- this is NOT the place. They market as a residential treatment facility but when you ask for a super bill they tell you they are NOT a residential facility and hand you a super bill with 8-9 therapy sessions on it for $100 an hour. The CFO is a lawyer- they know exactly what they are doing to slip through the cracks. They BUS all of their clients to an office down the street DAILY for some of the therapy sessions. They believe this allows them to sneak by having to provide a super bill of a residential treatment facility. I believe it is more like an IOP (Intensive Outpatient Program) which is THOUSANDS of dollars less than what they are charging as a Residential Program. What they are doing to gain clients and be able to bill like a RESIDENTIAL facility is disgusting and LACKS INTEGRITY. After hiring a medical billing advocate to help us recover some of our money- we were hung up on by the CFO several times. Our advocate told us they have never dealt with such an unprofessional facility. read more

As a couple, we have experienced the benefits of the excellent counselors and staff at seeking integrity. My SA husband reluctantly went to seek help in June 2021 after many years of sexual addiction. He returned to me with humility, a new perspective of addiction and an understanding of his actions and their effects on me. Together, we continue to use the resources (podcasts, drop in groups, alumni groups) to guide us down this path towards recovery and healing. We are married 56 years in July. It is not too late. I have much work to do for myself. Thank you Dr Rob, Tami, Karen, Scott and the many who are guiding us to a better life together. read more

simply put: there is no better counseling than that offered by Seeking Integrity. The residential program ( 3 or 4 weeks) is life changing and that is an immense understatement. Sex/Porn Addiction counseling centers around Dr. Rob Weiss as he has personally trained the vast majority of Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. A CSAT knows the addiction and how to engage and deal with the addiction pain. want to clean up your life? they are the professionals to guide you on that long road. read more

Had an amazing experience at Seeking Integrity! The doctors and staff were very helpful in meeting me where I was. The environment was very safe and I felt comfortable being vulnerable. My experience was definitely life changing and I am in a better place because of Seeking Integrity! Marc H read more

I suggest that you choose another therapist. This man is a self admitted narcissist. This is a list of red flag violations that he displayed in our couples session with him on 12/09/2021. Therapist is not interested in the changes you want to make and your goals. Therapist does not provide you with information about your rights as a client, and confidentiality. Counselor is judgmental or critical of your behavior, lifestyle, or problems. Therapist "looks down" at you or treats you as inferior in subtle or not so subtle ways. Therapist knowingly or unknowingly gets personal psychological needs met at the expense of focusing on you and your therapy. . Therapist talks excessively about personal issues and/or self-discloses often without any therapeutic purpose. Counselor cannot accept feedback or admit mistakes. Therapist focuses extensively on diagnosing without also helping you to change. Counselor talks too much. Therapist acts as if they have the answers or solutions to everything and spends time telling you how to best fix or change things. Therapist believes that only the therapist's counseling approach works and ridicules other approaches to therapy. Therapist is contentious with you or frequently confrontational. Counselor doesn't remember what he says moment to moment and blames old age. Therapist does not pay attention or appear to be listening and understanding you. Counselor threatens to leave the session Therapist seems overly emotional, affected, or triggered by your feelings or issues. Counselor pushes you into highly vulnerable feelings Therapist avoids exploring any of your emotional or vulnerable feelings. Therapist tries to get you to exert overt control over your impulses, compulsions, or addictions without helping you to appreciate and resolve the underlying causes. Counselor prematurely and/or exclusively focuses on an issue or compulsion when you would instead benefit more from learning coping skills to manage your impulses. Do yourself a favor and move on. I wish I had, and now I regret my decision to use Rob Weiss as a counselor read more

I can't say enough how valuable it has been to have this resource. Dr Rob and Tami have helped direct me to therapists in my area of the country as well as provided resources, workgroups and other experts to learn about addiction and the fallout of it. It will start you on the road to repair in your relationships that betrayal, trauma and addiction have caused havoc in. read more

Setting the gold standard for addiction treatment in California. The last two reviews are proof people tend to leave bad reviews on yelp, even when the therapists are in the top 1% of therapists in the country. They provide evidence based treatments. Rob has a PhD. Rob, Tami, Laci etc. are all amazing therapists. They helped me "see" and work through so many of my issues and has done so through her compassionate, insightful and often times humorous style. They are direct and at the same time and I always feel they has my best interests at heart. I've asked these therapists questions, and I have resolved so many challenges through their help. I asked them today about help changing habitual thinking errors behind my addiction, and I got great suggestions I haven't never heard anywhere else that i've paid other people thousands of dollars more for. I've experienced tremendous growth as an individual since I've been going to Seeking Integrity, and consider myself fortunate to have found such a talented and caring group of therapists. They give you tools, but you have to want it to make the change. If you have no motive there is not any therapist that can help you. Recovery is about growth and not regression. If you want someone to coddle you and excuse your acting out and someone who doesn't want to help you change, then these aren't the therapists for you. If you want genuine and compassionate care that will get you to a better place emotionally, spiritually, psychologically, etc. these are the therapists to see. I owe my life to seeking integrity, if they excused my acting out they way I was acting out when I found them I most likely would not still be alive. I'm not trying to get dramatic. It's just a reality. read more

Dr Rob will tell you he's the self-proclaimed expert in this arena. He's written a few successful books, but this is the third center he has been in charge of...why, because administrators get tired of his antics. The place doesn't take insurance, because all ALL major carriers know the true reason behind this facility. They will sell you on a "two-week program" and then after Dr Rob meets with his "financial" partner they decide how many they need to carry over to week 3 and they slow down your therapy. They offer week three and many people are so desperate not to lose their spouse or partner they pony up the $8500 for another week. This place does not know how to deal with sex addicts that are single. They only know how to prey on the ones that feel this is the last opportunity. It's not. I left the facility 2 days early upon mutual agreement (Dr Rob asked if I was staying for week 3 and I said "no" and he said maybe you should leave today, I agreed). They did instill a few things and my two weeks was worthwhile, but a little more research and conversations, will lead you to a better places. I'm better already and I'm doing about 10% of what they wanted me to do. They do not accept anything but THEIR way. Please do your research on other facilities before deciding to attend the profit center called Seeking Integrity. read more

Seeking Integrity is not for everyone. If you don't want to face your issues and just want to be coddled and pitied, you need to go somewhere else. Recovery work is hard, and despite their best efforts, no staff at any treatment center can make you do the work if you refuse to do it. Dr. Rob, Dr. David, and the staff work tirelessly to reach every client. Sometimes their methods are gentle and nurturing and sometimes what they do feels like soul surgery without anesthesia. It all depends on what is needed to get the client on a path toward recovery. As has been said in other reviews, Dr. Rob does share his experiences as an addict and does not shy away from his own character defects; this is strength, not self-indulgence. By showing how he holds himself accountable without shame he teaches the addicts that they can do the same. It was hard to face the fact that I alone decided to inflict the pain of betrayal on my loved ones but coming to terms with it has been essential in my sobriety and recovery. This was not easy for me or any of the other men who were in treatment with me. I hated Dr. Rob right up to the point that I took responsibility for my own actions, then I started to love him. If you are on the fence about going to Seeking Integrity, take a look at all the webinars and services they provide for free on their website. I don't know of any other treatment center that offers so much without any requirement to pay them. If you do decide to enter treatment at Seeking Integrity I think you will find that they offer one of the most affordable programs available. read more