I am grateful for Dr. Samadi. He found a heart defect in our little baby and referred us to people who could make sure our baby was taken care of. For that, I am so grateful.
I am also frustrated that there are no other options but Dr. Samadi in our community. Since Dr. Samadi was the only high risk specialist available, we were restricted to seeing only him.
Dr. Samadi is not friendly, nor does he sugar coat anything - quite the opposite.
I'm sure there is liability involved, but we were asked multiple times if we wanted to terminate the pregnancy. During each visit he asked us, "Now, you're going to keep this baby no matter what?"
I am pro-choice and would have been willing to terminate the pregnancy had our child not been able to live outside of the womb. If my life or the child's life were in grave danger, I would have considered my options. However, at no point did Dr. Samadi give us a diagnosis that wasn't treatable, so hearing that our baby could be treated for his heart condition, but repeatedly being told we should consider termination, was disturbing and unnecessary.
He repeatedly asked us if we had questions, yet refused to answer any questions we had.
He told us we needed an amniocentesis, but would not advise any further when we had serious questions about risks involved.
We were referred to specialists at the Valley Children's Hospital, which we appreciated. They were very informative and took over the care, yet Dr. Samadi did not trust that we had followed through with his referral, instead repeatedly warning us that we MUST find a surgeon (we told him the surgeon's name), that we MUST have a birth plan (we told him about our birth plan, the hospital we would deliver, the NICU that would care for our child). He didn't trust us nor the people he had referred us to, instead insisting we continue to make appointments with him even after our new doctors contacted his office to transfer care.
On our last visit (my appointment was scheduled at 3:15PM, we were seen by Dr. Samadi at 8:00PM) he did the ultrasound and repeatedly, very gravely, said "This baby's going to need surgery" - about 10 times he repeated this phrase while shaking his head.
We were aware of our baby's condition, and we had a team of specialists at the Valley Children's Hospital that were on board with our baby's needs. We knew our baby would need surgery and were aware of the exact process, procedures, and risks involved (thanks to our doctors at Valley Children's).
I am grateful that Dr. Samadi found our baby's heart defect, but each visit was unnecessarily frustrating and stressful. We were completely deflated after each appointment, feeling as though we were going to lose our child and we shouldn't be trusted with our baby's care.
Our baby was born with surgeons ready to step in. He was transported to Valley Children's Hospital NICU based on the assessments and plans made by the Valley Children's doctors. Our baby did not need immediate surgery, was born strong and able to breathe on his own. He can withstand feedings and is thriving. He is now at home with us after spending only 10 days in the NICU.
He will need surgery, but not immediately - he's strong and well enough to wait until he's bigger, which is a great sign. We have an amazing team at Valley Children's who are ready to take on whatever challenges our baby has.
The staff at Dr. Samadi's office are very nice - they are overworked and tired of the complaints. Patients are seen usually 3-4 hours after the appointment time. The good news is, you can call to check in and not have to wait at the office - they call you when there are only a few people ahead of you. But it's frustrating and hard to plan for. He yelled at his staff saying, "I'm going to murder someone! Who did this?!" while we were in the room, embarrassing his staff for putting equipment away incorrectly (only slightly shifted).
Overall - Dr. Samadi is smart, has the knowledge to detect and diagnose, and is able to refer to the right people. But I cannot get back the hours of stress and depression he caused throughout my pregnancy.
Even when I told him how grateful I was that he had detected our baby's heart defect and referred us to the right people - he ignored me, and only responded with grave concern. No positivity whatsoever. He gave us no hope. He didn't trust us or the people he referred us to. read more