There are very few times in my career as a funeral director when I have been completely at a loss…read morefor words, but trying to adequately express what Loretta at Meyers Funeral Chapel meant to my family is one of them.
My sister lost her 33-year-old son, Jesse--my nephew--and our family was facing a loss that no parent, sibling, or family should ever have to endure. For once, I wasn't the funeral director standing on the other side of the arrangement table trying to make everything better. I was the uncle. I was the brother watching my sister and brother-in-law experience the unimaginable. I was grieving too.
And then there was Loretta.
She was, quite simply, a Godsend to our family.
After more than two decades in funeral service, I know what happens behind the scenes. I know what exceptional care looks like, and I know the difference between simply doing the job and truly having a heart for the families we serve. Loretta has that heart.
She cared for Jesse with incredible dignity and respect, but just as importantly, she cared for the people who loved him. She showed my sister and brother-in-law compassion when their hearts were shattered. She was patient when emotions were overwhelming. She listened. She reassured. She handled the details so we didn't have to. And somehow, through one of the darkest moments our family has ever experienced, she gave us a sense of comfort and peace.
As a funeral director, handing the care of someone you love to another funeral director is incredibly difficult. You notice everything. You know what should happen, how things should be handled, and the level of care you want for your own family.
With Loretta, I was able to let go.
I trusted her with Jesse. I trusted her with my sister. I trusted her with my family. And I knew Jesse was receiving the same level of care, dignity, and attention I would have given him myself. From one funeral director to another, I can think of no greater compliment.
Loretta also gave me something I didn't realize how badly I needed: permission to simply be Jesse's uncle and my sister's brother instead of trying to be everyone's funeral director. That gift meant more to me than she will probably ever know.
Loretta, you reminded me why our profession matters. It isn't about caskets, paperwork, schedules, or services. It is about being there when another human being's world has fallen apart and quietly helping them find their way through the next few days.
You didn't just take care of Jesse's funeral. You took care of our family.
I will never forget what you did for my sister, my brother-in-law, Jesse, or me. I have spent much of my career trying to provide this kind of care to other families, and when my own family needed it most, you gave that same compassion back to us.
Meyers Funeral Chapel has an extraordinary funeral director in Loretta.
Five stars could never adequately express our gratitude. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for taking such beautiful care of Jesse and all of us.