Had anyone suggested a few years ago that I'd benefit from hypnotherapy, I would have laughed. But after several years of stress and turmoil at work I'd become moody, depressed and overweight, and my 'get up and go' had, well, gone! Then someone suggested visiting Pathways, and I've never looked back - Victoria has been instrumental and invaluable in helping me get my life back in order. On arrival I was welcomed into an airy and well-lit room that felt both serene and relaxing. Victoria spent a few minutes explaining how she operates, then, having got the formalities out of the way, the consultation began. Victoria has a compassionate and therapeutic approach which makes her very easy to talk to - and, more importantly, trust (very important when extracting those skeletons one's kept locked in a cupboard for years); she has a way of making one feel completely at ease even when talking about difficult subjects. She's also very perceptive, listening carefully and delicately asking probing questions that don't seem intrusive yet still get to the roots of matters - and, the process certainly helped me to recognise, understand and accept them. Once the underlying issues were clearer (some of which went back much further than I would ever have assumed), she moved on to the next stage. As can be seen from her website, Victoria is qualified in a number of techniques and is adept at selecting the one most appropriate to each case. Hypnosis was nothing like I expected. Was it a totally pleasant experience? No - but digging into a past I'd kept hidden for years was never going to be easy: there were tears, but laughter, too. Was it worthwhile? Definitely! The therapy was undoubtedly successful, while the generous support Victoria offered afterwards helped me to develop the strategies I needed to move forward: friends and family have noticed a significant change for the better and several months later the results are still with me - I can't thank her enough! Victoria is the consummate professional therapist. Having been to see her now on several occasions for a variety of issues, I have no hesitation in recommending her - she's undoubtedly the best I've visited. read more

I first went to see Victoria to help cure me of a food phobia (primarily vegetables) which I have had for almost 2 decades. Just a few weeks in and I was cured of the phobia; I can try new foods without convincing myself beforehand that I don't like them so now my palate has widened and I am able to eat considerably more types of food without panicking and my diet is so much healthier. It's amazing quite how much this has changed my life; I don't have to feel embarrassed at a restaurant or make excuses not to go to a friend's for dinner. On top of this we also worked on my cravings for things like chocolate and ice cream and after just one session they were gone; I still enjoy them very much when I do have them but I'm in control now, I can step back and evaluate whether I am actually hungry and whether I have been quite healthy recently before allowing myself a treat rather that have an overwhelming need to eat whichever craving was prevalent and then be racked with guilt and remorse afterwards. We also worked on my motivation and completed a food diary; now I'm thinking more about what and how much I eat so my calorie intake has dropped by at least 40% (even over Easter!), my diet is healthier, my portions are down, I'm exercising more regularly (and enjoying it) so as a result I'm finally noticeably losing weight and feeling so much better in myself. We also worked on my self confidence which has gone up so much and tackled my phobias; for example previously I would sleep in another room to avoid a spider if there wasn't anyone else to get rid of it, now I just catch them and put them out and it is no bother. The whole experience was amazing; Victoria is so welcoming, friendly, easy to talk to and non-judgmental, I ended up saying far more that I ever thought I would and it has helped so much. I came out of every session feeling both relaxed in myself and energised and always looked forward to the next one, I honestly can't recommend Victoria enough or thank her enough for all the help she has given me. read more

I have been struggling with exam phobia since I was 11 years old (37 years). I work in a high profile job and I needed to pass an exam in order to stay on my team. I had failed my exam 5 times previously over the last 8 years and I desperately needed to pass. I struggled with panic attacks, not being able to read questions, my mind was an absolute mess and I was in such a panic I was never able to even read the questions, let alone watching a clock the whole time. A friend of mine had had hypnosis from Victoria a few years previously for fear of flying and highly recommended by her. I enquired with Victoria and she messaged me straight back and spoke to me about my exam phobia. She really eased my conscious and told me she could help me. I booked in with her and had intense emotional freedom treatment (EFT) and hypnosis on all of my previous traumas. It was emotional, intense and I really had to dig deep with my feelings that had been buried for so long. Victoria was amazing, she helped me through every step of the way and always told me it was ok. I saw Victoria over the course of a month as I only had 6 weeks notice of an exam that normally takes 6 months to revise for. I took my mock exam and passed with flying colours but the real exam was coming up and I was surprisingly calm leading up to it. I put this down to all of the treatments she had given me and how she had re programmed my brain and cleared my previous traumas of past exams. I am so happy to say I passed with the amazing score of 87% which was the highest result in the county. I honestly can't believe that I passed and I can't say thankyou enough to Victoria for all of the help, support, belief, encouragement and giving me all the tools I needed to have the confidence to pass the exam. I will be forever grateful to you, thankyou so much! read more

Help is out there! I went to see Victoria because I had been the victim of trauma and rape. I wasn't sure if this kind of therapy could help me forget about what had happened - it turns out it couldn't help me forget, but it could help me get through the pain and discomfort that went with the memories. I was finding it difficult to be intimate in new relationships which caused me distress and made me feel vulnerable. When my partner would try to talk about sex or get angry at me through frustration (as they didn't know why), id push them away making it virtually impossible to be in a long term loving relationship. I also found myself being overly cautious in situations like going out, walking alone, being home alone and meeting new people- as I would always think the worst would happen again. Now if I find myself thinking about it, or seeing it on TV, it doesn't affect me in the same way it did and I can accept it as a part of my history instead of a part of my present. Victoria treated me with respect in a non-judgmental way and didn't push me for gory details. She enabled me to tell my story without pressure or making me feel dirty or to blame something I think most people fear that have been raped so they never tell anybody. After completing therapy with Victoria I am now in a loving relationship and I feel more settled in myself looking forward to each new day with my partner. I am no longer held back by the memories that haunted me every day and I feel like I can see good in the world again. Hypnosis helped change my life - you don't need to let bad experiences hold you back something can be done about it. To those who are still suffering and sceptical you have my word this works! read more

There are no words to describe how thankful I am to Victoria of pathways. On a general note Victoria is super organised, very welcoming and professional. She is dedicated and committed and above all amazing at what she is very qualified to do. On a specific note I went to Victoria in an absolute state of desperation having exhausted all over routes in the hope of easing my emetophobia. From my very first appointment Victoria had offered me reassurance, hope and answers. She made me feel "normal". She was extremely honest and managed my expectations. After each appointment I had new tools I could use each day to help me control my overwhelming fear that had truly taken over my life. Slowly week by week I could see the improvements, and today I can confidently say it no longer rules my life. There is no more desperation or despair. I am free of my phobia and ready to enjoy my life again. Victoria has changed my life. She adapted hypno scripts specially to aid me and what I was dealing with, writing her own pieces to personalise my treatment. She moved at my pace and the end result is truly fantastic. If anyone is reading this review as they feel they need hypnotherapy to help them at all.i would say give it a go. You can't believe the powerful effect it can have on you until you have experienced it. It helps with so many issues and Victoria has years of experience to establish what's causing the issue and how she can resolve the problems. A 5* review is not enough praise for how fantastic Victoria and her business is. From the moment you make contact, you will be reassured that things can change and will. And believe me they will. read more

As someone who has struggled with anxiety the majority of her life and felt like all hope was lost when I had the biggest meltdown and panic attack I have ever had, seeing Victoria I was always unsure of as I had tried every therapist, every book and every tactic the internet had to offer. After recently finishing sessions not only have I noticed a difference so have all the important people in my life. Thanks to Victoria I am now more free with the decision I make and less hesitant to just spontaneously get in a car by myself, sleep over at places far from home, etc. obviously anxiety is still part of me but not as much part of my life. With Victoria's help and techniques I have managed to cope with my anxiety. Not only did I learn more about myself, I learnt more about my anxiety and everything that bothered me was still pretty much buried under the surface. I really could not recommend anyone more and trust me I remember being the person reading the views and was like 'yeah right. Like someone can do that and help THAT much' but with Victoria's help I truly believe it is possible. She is the most welcoming, friendly and down to earth person I have ever come across as a therapist not only does she have a good balance between friend and therapist, she always makes sure I know she is there to listen and help not to judge. I am 18 now and finally free! Thank you victoria, you were amazing! read more

Victoria is truly worth her weight in gold! After some very hard years making me feel lost and riddled with anxiety I was pointed in Victorias direction and with no exaggeration she has well and truly saved my life. After only 6 months Victoria has helped me sort through all the bad and deal with traumas I didn't think I would ever be able to, I finally feel back to myself again when I had completely forgotten who that was. Victoria is so patient, kind and compassionate that it is so encouraging to make the right steps in life. Not only does Victoria help you dissect and deal with the bad parts of life while you're with her but she also gives you all the tools you could possibly need to carry on with everyday life! If it wasn't for this magnificent lady I'd be scared to wonder where life would have taken me. With her help she has picked me up and put me back on track. I was very wary to begin with as there is some kind of stigma that goes with 'therapy' but Victoria proves them all so wrong a thousand times over! If you are here and looking at her reviews then please do contact her, I can assure you you will not regret it as I certainly didn't. This lady well and truly deserves so much appreciation and more for what she does. Again Victoria my biggest thank you! read more

I recently visited Victoria for support with general anxiety and travel-related anxiety, and I cannot recommend her highly enough. From the very beginning, she was exceptionally professional and reassuring. She provided clear, detailed information about how to find her clinic and what to expect when I arrived, which immediately put me at ease. Throughout our sessions, it was evident how knowledgeable she is about a wide range of therapeutic approaches. She took the time to understand my specific needs and adapted each session accordingly, ensuring that everything we did felt relevant, comfortable, and effective. She also equipped me with several practical tools and techniques to use between sessions, which made a huge difference in my day-to-day life. I'm already experiencing real progress--most notably, I was able to travel in a taxi without the overwhelming anxiety that previously made it something I avoided whenever possible. This is a significant milestone for me, and I'm incredibly grateful for her support in helping me achieve it. I would wholeheartedly recommend Victoria to anyone experiencing anxiety or seeking hypnotherapy. Her professionalism, expertise, and genuine care have made a meaningful impact on my wellbeing. read more

I found Pathways Hypnotherapy to be one of the most positive things that has happened to me in the last few years. Victoria offers THE solution to losing weight I have tried everything, believe me and for once in my life I can honestly say that I will never diet again. I wont need to! I have lost three stones in 6 months and am continuing to lose. Never again will I pay week after to week to lose nothing at the raft of slimming clubs I have joined. Actually a hypnotic gastric band offers value for money (except in that I have had to buy a whole new wardrobe and may even have to replace those clothes again soon as they are getting baggy!) For anyone wanting to lose weight this is it! I was skeptical at first, as I imagine that you will be ready this however it works. Not only for me, but for the four others that I have also referred to Victoria. Victoria offers a professional service yet still maintains a friendly approach which means your in good hands. I now know that should I experience any personal issues moving forwards that I can deal with them and should I need some support I can make an appointment with Pathways. read more

Confidence and self-esteem I would highly recommend Victoria. I went to see her as I was suffering from anxiety in general but especially at the school after a bad experience with other school mums. As a result of the bullying, I was bursting into tears every time someone was kind to me or said something nice as my self-esteem had hit rock bottom. Victoria was able to rebuild my self-esteem and release all the negativity involving the school experiences enabling me to now face the bullies without feeling powerless. I no longer have anxiety attacks, flush up red in the face or get palpitations when near these people at the school. I haven't forgotten what they did but it doesn't affect me anymore. Going through treatment for this raised other unresolved issues that were contributing to my self-esteem issues and only upon the resolution of these did I realise how much they affected me in day to day life. I can now accept myself and my past decisions and feel at peace within myself. I can now look to the future with positivity and feel that things are a lot less complicated so I can enjoy life. Thank you Victoria read more

I can honestly say I didn't realise how bad things actually were until I had to write it all down for Victoria. My cupboard with all of the the bad things that had happened was full, now & then the door would fling open giving me low days but I would fight to suppress it & close the door but it would only be a matter of time before the door opened again, a cycle I just repeated over & over again making me tired & miserable. I just kept telling myself I didn't need any help, I was fine, but I really wasn't! From the moment I met Victoria I felt relaxed around her, something I'd not experienced with a strange before, I was nervous because I wasn't sure if hypnosis would even work on me but with Victoria help working with hypnosis & EFT we work on each of my issues that I'd locked in my cupboard. After each session i was drained but I started to feel better & better more like the me I wanted to be instead of the me I'd become. Victoria has made such a difference to my life, I'd recommend Victoria without a doubt. Thank you Victoria xx read more

I was impressed by Victoria's calm professionalism and extensive knowledge when I visited her about a phobia which had dominated my life for decades. She didn't make me feel that my phobia was 'ridiculous' or trivial, but she immediately filled me with confidence that my fear could be overcome. After several visits, where she used a range of techniques as well as equipping me with various skills, I can honestly say that I have put my phobia behind me. Under hypnosis, I also learnt the origin of my phobia, which helped me to rationalise and confront the original incident... I'd totally blocked this from my memory. I tried a couple of other hypnotherapists previously, but neither of them gained my trust or confidence like Victoria. Her office was professional and comfortable, and she was a pleasant and friendly person who was easy to talk to. I'd recommend Victoria wholeheartedly. read more

I found Victoria whilst researching the possibility of accessing hypnotherapy to overcome a few issues that were preventing me from achieving my full potential. Victoria offers a free consultation to discuss the issues you are experiencing and suggests treatment plan; including hypnotherapy, EFT etc add well as tools for self hypnosis. Victoria was very accommodating and went above and beyond to work within my very limited timeframe. I feel that having hypnotherapy with Victoria had helped me to overcome issues which were potentially preventing me from furthering my academic achievements and future career, enabling me to have a can do attitude. I have come to the end of my sessions with Victoria, however, I know that her door is always open and I am able to contact her to restart my therapy, if needed in the future. I highly recommend Pathways Hypnotherapy. read more

I would like to say thank you to Victoria for helping me. She is professional, compassionate and thorough. She will work with you to achieve the best possible result. Not only did she work hard in the room but she also prepared well for our sessions, using information provided by me. I also found her to be adaptable and patient. On occasions I arrived at my session upset about an event that had happened to me during the week and to help me, she adapted the planned session to deal with the immediate problem. One of my issues was driving on long unfamiliar journeys. However, I now feel more confident about driving. In fact I took off this morning around the lanes and countryside of Dorset to an unfamiliar destination for me and I actually enjoyed the drive! My anxiety levels have also dropped considerably. Thank you again Victoria. read more

I've had multiple hypnotherapy sessions with Victoria and the results have been incredibly positive. From the very first session, she made me feel completely at ease. If you're someone who feels nervous or unsure about being hypnotised, I honestly couldn't recommend Victoria more -- she explains everything clearly and you always feel fully in control. Victoria is kind, patient, understanding, and highly professional. She really takes the time to listen and tailor each session to your needs, which made a huge difference for me. I felt supported throughout the whole process and genuinely noticed positive changes after my sessions. I'm so grateful for the experience and would encourage anyone considering hypnotherapy, especially if you're feeling hesitant, to book a session with Victoria. You'll be in very safe hands. read more

I have recently had a course of treatment with Victoria of Pathways Hypnotherapy. I chose this service after reading many positive reviews about how she had helped others. I was having difficulty travelling, being in confined spaces and busy areas, l was also having panic attacks and anxiety about the thought of forthcoming events approaching such as holidays and visits to places. Victoria gave me various methods to help cope with my anxieties and following my hypnotherapy sessions the outcome has been very successful. I now look forward to going places and especially holidays. I no longer have panic attacks and I am very relaxed about going places day to day. I would recommend Victoria to anyone having any of the many issues I had as the result has been so successful and greatly improved my life. Thank you. Glen read more

I have just finished my time with Victoria, and must say I feel like a completely different person , no actually that is incorrect, I feel how I used to be before I had anxieties. I had not been in a lift for 23 years and this was starting to take over my life. But since having hypnotherapy with Victoria I now feel I have the tools and positive attitude to live my life the way it should be lived and the way I deserve it should be lived. Victoria is such a calming and positive person and I felt so comfortable in her presence from the very first session. I was able to relax fully in her environment and felt no pressure to say or do anything I did not want to do. And the best thing of all I HAVE BEEN IN A LIFT 3 TIMES since. New adventures here I come!!! Thank you so much Victoria. Clair 04/10/2014 read more

I cannot recommend Victoria highly enough, she is friendly, professional and she helped me so much. I saw Victoria after having a bad anxiety attack while on holiday, once I was home I was in a complete mess and having very depressive thoughts and being very emotional. I was struggling at work as I could not concentrate, I lost my appetite and could not sleep. I went to the Doctors and they just wanted to put me on tablets, but this is not the route I wanted to go. I was a sceptical about hypnosis but I had heard good thing about Victoria and I didn't know what else to do. It's been a few weeks since I last saw Victoria and I have been good, maybe even better than before as she helped me deal with some of my phobia's that could have contributed towards my anxiety attack. read more

Highly recommended I was initially looking for a hypnotherapist for driving anxiety & a fear of heights. I came across some reviews of Victoria where she had help others with childhood issues, which I knew I needed to address . When I spoke to Victoria on the phone I knew I had found the person to help me. Victoria has help me overcome many issues, including, deep seated childhood issues, driving anxiety, fear of heights, confidence/self esteem/self love issues, procrastination, motivation, money management/spending & many more. Victoria has an amazing passion to help people, and she certainly helped me. I'm now the best version of me that I could ever had imagine and the great thing is that she is there for me if I need her help in the future. read more