My experience is an exact reflection of the previous reviewer.
I met with Dr. Thomas for many months when, one day, my wife asked if I would mind if she met with Dr. Thomas. Thinking that my wife must be seeing some good results from my time with Dr. Thomas - I certainly could not sense any good changes - I said yes. The very next time I went to counseling after my wife met with hiim, Dr. Thomas asked me a question. As I began to answer, I was stunned by the look on Dr.Thomas' face. I stopped talking. He said, "That's not what (wife's name) tells me, but then, of course, I'm not at liberty to tell you what (name) told me...am I?" I cannot describe the look on Dr. Thomas' face. Jeering. Mocking.
To this day, five years or more longer, this moment remains the most devastating moment of my life. As a Christian, I asked my wife to stop meeting with Dr. Thomas; she refused and continues to counsel with him. As a "Christian," with full knowledge that I asked my wife toto quit meeting with him, Dr. Thomas continues to counsel her. My wife has decided that she must divorce me, never mind that the Bible speaks of forgiveness or grace or mercy.
Dr. Thomas is listed by the American Academy of Christian Counselors. If this is "Christian counseling," then I must be a pagan.
The professional literature tells EMDR counselors to NEVER take a client back into a abusive situation. Revisiting my childhood sexual abuse was the only thing Dr. Thomas did want to take me back into.And, as noted above, he clearly will not/cannot take the time/use his skills to get clients to divulge difficult topics to him; he uses humiliation of the client, vs earning trust, as a technique to encourage openness.
Not a day goes by that I do not contemplate taking my life. Should I lose my job, I most definitely will commit suicide. I am DEVASTATED by how this "Christian" counselor treated me...or, rather, humiliated me. As Ms P concludes, PLEASE seek help elsewhere. Feel free to call me if you have any further concerns. My name is Darryl and my cell number is (360) 798-1252. Do I fear that Dr. Thomas will retaliate? Yes, I most certainly do. He threatened me more than once when I was meeting with him. But with losing my wife to his "therapy," I have NOTHING to fear. I feel like a dead man already.
God bless you. Just not the God Dr. Thomas and my wife "worship." read more