There are lots of good things about Nuestro Jardin, but it's not for everyone.
PROS - Artistic, creative learning environment that is based around themes that are child-led. Kids go to the park twice a day, Spanish Immersion, experiments and the art is amazing. My child checks off all the kindergarten-ready boxes when it comes to learning.
*****CONS*****
ONLY THE WELL BEHAVED CHILDREN - If your child is a spirited urchin with a flair for drama, has trouble with big emotions and transitions, tests boundaries, asks why every 30 seconds, can't sit still little monkey-child that passionately defends what is important to them without considering the best way to handle a situation - then he/she may have some trouble in this environment. Eventually, they may end up hyper-scrutinized where every single expression of negative emotion or defiance is an issue. At THREE years old, he was written up every day during his first week of school for normal 3 year old behavior. I joined the preschool form of PTA, joking that it was the only way they'd let him stay in the school since I was receiving so many calls (and they called me every single time, never Dad). It worked the first year. (More below.)
IT'S EXPENSIVE - The monthly rate seems competitive at first. However, they take all Portland Public School days off, so expect to pay for separate childcare during spring break, 1/2 of December, No-School November, any all the other PPS days that are closed... then you pay for an entire month in June even though school is only 1 week. So if you pay for summer camps or childcare, then expect to pay double during the month of June. I didn't read the fine-print enough and that came as a shock. We paid over $3,000 dollars for childcare last June between a 4 year old and an infant (which had inexpensive in-home care).
BE INVOLVED AS A PARENT OR BE PUNISHED - My kid isn't that different between last year and this year. What's different is my involvement as a parent. Last year, I was pregnant and so winding down my business a bit in preparation, I was able to get involved. This year, with 2 kids, often working 6 days a week, I can't do it. These things may not be related, but I feared from the beginning that not getting involved would mean they were less tolerant of my son. It also feels they're less tolerant of me. I was told not to enter the school, not to even ask the teacher's assistant who brought him to the door how his day went. That isolated me as a parent. The only communication was about what he did wrong. It separated my child from the other kids' normal - enforcing the message he is "that kid". Other parents noticed and commented.
PREPARE TO BE TALKED TO BUT NOT LISTENED TO, PASSIVE-AGGRESSIVE COMMENTS, AND NO COMPROMISES - There was one particular unfortunate exchange between my son's teacher and I during the first parent teacher conference this year. Dad couldn't make a trip across town in traffic so video-conferenced in. At one point I was asked about behavior-remedies we'd tried. I was cut off, and literally told I "was doing it wrong" on the first thing I mentioned. Then I was treated to a lecture about what the specialists say. Admittedly, I didn't handle it well. No outburst, but I cried silently as she continued. I know she meant well and was packing it all into a 20 minute conference, but I felt judged and unsupported at a vulnerable time. Moms are shamed enough as it is! Months later, the Director made reference in an email to "that time" as the reason to not allow Dad to attend a mid-day "we need to talk about your kid" conference via video (it would have meant 3+ hours away from his business). However, she had never once asked me about "that time". I was confused why the exchange with my child's teacher warranted a boycott on video conferencing, so wrote an email to the Director explaining what about "that time" had been the issue for me. SILENCE, not even a "thank you for your email"... the most basic of overtures during conflict resolution. However, video was still boycotted, and though we were asked what times were convenient for Dad, we were only offered a few options at the same mid-day slot. Side jabs like "that time" were common place. "We noticed he was gone on Monday, and today..."
CONCLUSION
Nuestro Jardin nurtures learning, and curiosity. if you have a mild-mannered, well-behaved child who loves art and imaginary play, they will excel and flourish. But if your child is perfect for a remake of Home Alone or Dennis the Menace, save them the anguish and self-doubt that comes with being on the underside of a magnifying glass. Nuestro Jardin is a private school. They don't have to take all children, and they will expel him for not fitting the mold. Of course, they'll tell you it's for the safety of all the other children and you'll pray that the school to prison pipeline skips preschool. And your friends who teach public school will shake their heads in disbelief. read more