I can hardly begin to express in here what a blessing Zoila and her husband, Chi, have been in mine and my son's lives. I came to San Francisco with my son when he was two-months-old. For the most part, I was alone, with little to no support network, no source of income, and college seemed out of my reach. I was only 21, and didn't have any confidence in my abilities as a new mother nor any guidance. To sum it up, I was quite lost and exhausted, like many new parents are.
I chose this daycare because it really felt like a loving home when I walked inside. My son started at 5 months old. By the third day, Zoila had my son on a consistent sleep schedule, for the first time ever. From that time on, my son fell asleep twice a day during his nap times without any struggle, and went to sleep at the same time every night. I couldn't believe it. (Finally, I could do things like take showers by myself, eat food with both hands free, or even just take a nap, too.) And that was just the beginning.
Zoila really cares about the children's development, both physically and mentally. Every day she cooks and prepares a variety of nutritious, organic meals with no added salt or sugar. She doesn't just get children to eat their vegetables, she actually gets children to LOVE eating their vegetables. She also makes a point of regularly introducing the children to new foods and flavors. My son is now 3-years-old and has a broader palate than I do.
I was able to start work feeling secure and knowing my son was in a safe, stable, and enriching environment. Zoila is consistent and firm with her rules, yet always gentle and calm. She teaches the children politeness, conflict resolution, problem solving, but also how to dance to music. She's so attentive and adapts to each child's individual needs. At pick up, I'd always get updates about the the day's events, the little relationship dynamics between the children, and valuable insight into my son's development; this amount of communication was so appreciated. While working and in school full-time, I never once felt out of the loop with my son. She was always happy to answer questions, give helpful advice, and work with me in helping my son reach his developmental goals.
I could go on and on about things like how she would ask about my classes and how they watched my son after hours so I could take the night classes I needed one semester, or how she knitted a beanie for my son when he was growing out of his, or how when my son and I lived outside of the city for a few months, we'd woken up early and commuted an extra 3 hours a day by public transit to keep my son at her daycare because it was absolutely worth it. It's no wonder that previous families going as far as 20 years back come to her picnic reunions every year. (By the way, did I mention that her cooking is amazing? Learn a recipe from her whenever you get a chance.) Not just anyone can build a community like that. Zoila and Chi treat you like family. They're so much more than just professionals, they go above and beyond because they're genuinely good people. Now, almost three years later, we've come a long way. My son is starting life with a stronger foundation, I'm more than halfway finished with my education, and I feel much more confident and capable as a parent with all the knowledge and wisdom they shared with me over the years. The positive impact they had on us will be felt the rest of our lives, and I will always be grateful.
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