My husband and I are both nurses. Given all the tragedy we witness in our line of work, it was…read moreespecially important to us that we found a highly skilled midwife with solid experience. Michelle was our second midwife we interviewed and we knew she was highly qualified after meeting her. My husband, being a family nurse practitioner was quite nervous about my decision wanting a home birth. After meeting Michelle and drilling her with lots of questions, especially from my husband, we both decided she would be the perfect fit for our home birth.
Michelle is warm, patient, an AMAZING listener and is extremely flexible with scheduling appointments and payments.
Michelle includes appointments in her Berkeley office, Walnut Creek office and also makes home visits especially as it gets closer to delivery. After delivery Michelle schedules appointments the next day, 3 days later, (4 days later for an extra appointment that I felt I needed), 2 weeks after and 6 weeks after. Michelle made an extra visit to my home because I wanted her to check on me and make sure my pelvic organs were doing well after delivery. She was gentle and reassuring and guided me to rest when I REALLY needed to.
I started seeing Michelle around 4 months pregnant. She was especially patient with me as I experienced a high stress load with a new job (December 2017), new pregnancy (January 2018), and a new move (February 2018). I started seeing Michelle in March 2018.
I appreciated the resources on Michelle's website. I used Paula Santi for a Lactation Consultant, who is also phenomenal!! I reached out to learn about renting a birthing tub through Michelle's website. I had SO MANY questions for Michelle about water births.
The BIG DAY was October 4, 2018 at 02:08 am. I went into active labor about 9 pm October 3. I communicated with Michelle frequently and when my water broke at 12:45 AM and the contractions were MORE THAN INTENSE, my husband quickly called her and explained to come to our home as soon as possible. It was perfect timing. Michelle arrived about 1-1:15 AM and our baby girl came into our lives at 02:08 AM. I could have called her earlier but I had so many inconsistent contractions October 2 into October 3rd that I was in denial this was IT! My husband and I both LOVED the home birth experience. Factors that were so different than my first birth in a hospital setting were the following:
- listen to your body and get in ANY position you feel you need to
- olive oil on a hot wet towel on my perineum as baby was descending-- NO TEARS, such a big deal after having a 3rd degree in the hospital
- they stayed for about 2 hours and we had privacy and family time
- they were especially patient with the first breast feeding experience and waiting until we were ready for the assessment of the baby
- they allowed the placenta and cord to be attached for as long as I wanted until we were ready to cut it
- they allowed the baby to get pink on her own and didn't have to rub her so hard like they do in the hospital
- I didn't have an IV or loud machines or bright lights or numerous people coming in and out of my room
- I had candles, music and my husband and my mother at my bedside in my home
I can't thank Michelle enough for her expertise. Amber and Sophie, her assistants, also attended the home birth and were extremely helpful. I also had my doula Kathryn Webb present, which was important to me, since she attended my first birth in the hospital.
My home birth experience with East Bay Home Midwifery was truly magical. If you have any further questions or want to talk to me on the phone as a reference I'd be more than happy to help. 925-448-0686