On January 15, 2026 our family suffered the lost of my Dad. It came at a shock as his passing was…read morequick. Oahu Cemetary assisted me through each step of the process in this difficult time. Being that it is an emotional process our coordinator Sherie worked very hard to help in the process as we faced a simple but troubling issue. Despite this Sherie kept in touch and through this we were able to complete the process and retrieve his remains. The urn that I purchased from them was a beautiful Hawaiian Koa box that now holds the remains of both my Mom and Dad together. My Mom passed away back in 2020 during the lockdown and we were unable to do anything for her but handle her cremation. Now with the passing of my Dad, he and my Mom can be together as they were before 2020. They were married for 43 years and finally together again not just in heaven but as their remains sit together in this beautiful urn that was also beautifully engraved. Mahalo Sherie and Oahu Cemetary for helping in closing this final chapter in our family.

A huge MAHALO to Raymond T. and staff at Oʻahu Mortuary! I could not have gone through the process…read morelosing my dad without Raymond's guidance. Dad passed back in October 2025 and finally laid him to rest last month April 2026, as I live on the mainland. Raymond was extremely helpful, patient, empathetic, and very kind throughout the months, while keeping in touch with my aunt who lives local. He went above and beyond to make sure dad was taken care of while planning his final destination at Punchbowl Cemetary. I felt so much weight lifted in interim while Raymond took care of literally all the arrangements from the beginning of the cremation to the beautiful burial. He made it that much easier during this difficult time of grief from afar. I appreciate all the Aloha and care at O'ahu Mortuary. Again Raymond T., my ohana and I genuinely thank you for being there when most needed!

Losing my mother was one of the hardest things our family has ever gone through, but Nuuanu…read moreMemorial Park & Mortuary took care of us with so much aloha and compassion. From the very beginning, they treated us like ohana and made sure we felt supported every step of the way. They handled every detail with care and respect, allowing us to focus on honoring my mom's life. Her viewing was beautiful and heartfelt -- it truly reflected who she was and the love she gave to everyone around her. During such a difficult time, their kindness meant everything to us. We'll always be grateful for the comfort and support they showed our family. I highly recommend them to anyone on Oahu looking for genuine, caring service.

My dad passed away on December 6, 2024. The whole thing has been a blur and I've just been zoning…read morein and out. My parents purchased a glass niche here years ago and luckily were prepared, so I didn't have to deal with it. We met with Jack. He was our funereal director and walked us through the whole process. He was such a tremendous help. He explained everything to us and answered all our questions. My dad was cremated on the same day. We made an appointment with jack the next day to put my dad in the niche. Everything went smoothly. If you use Nuuanu Memorial, I would highly recommend Jack.

One thing my niece went with them cause they were a local company,…read more And we are locals so we chose them but,when we were going to view my sister they first said 15 minutes,we asked if we could stay longer, they said 30 minutes free and 400.00 for the next 30 MINUTES 400.00 ! talk about ripping grieving people off ,thats horrible, I must say though the guy who fixed my sister up made her beautiful

So kind and responsive. Available 24-hours a day. We felt comforted and in good hands.read more

When my stepfather passed away, I used Ballard for his cremation. He passed on Aug 22 and was…read morecremated around Sept. The end product was nice. The customer service should've been better. I had told Ballard, that I would be taking care of my stepfather's arrangements and any payments. I told them to not contact my mother because she was grieving so the least I could do is take this off her mind. Mom was also stepfather's caretaker and was there with him when he passed. So she wasn't exactly in a state to deal with funeral arrangements. They ended up calling my mother and asking for payment when it wasn't near the agreed upon dates. I felt that this was very insensitive. Another thing was that I had payed with cash and sent my boyfriend to drop it off. While he was there they counted the money wrong, had to recount, counted the money wrong again, and had 2 people double check the amount of cash. Now, I understand that everyone has those days, but after I specifically told them not to bother my mother... I couldn't help not to be irritated. But overall, the cremation was seamless and end product was satisfactory.

I had my father's Celebration of Life here and it went off without a problem. Lots of parking, lots…read moreof chairs, attendants, air conditioned, attention to detail, AV set up and a director. CJ was my director that night. From the tables, displays and AV equipment, everything was taken care of. She is a very empathetic and sweet person. Also, the chapel rental and other services seemed reasonable.

Located downtown close to Vineyard St on Nuuanu Ave, my parents purchased funeral plans and mom…read morepassed in 2011. Hosoi did a wonderful job making sure everything was as she wished and easy to work with, absolutely organized, efficient, and very sympathetic. Dad passed a couple months ago and we were lucky to work with Ricki, who was so wonderful because there was an additional step to Dad's plan as he was a retired Air Force Lt Col so his final wish was to be interred at Punchbowl with full military honors. Ricki kindly helped with all of the plans, setting the date with Punchbowl and working with USAF to ensure dad received his honors. Ricki's been doing this a while so he has it down-pat and makes good suggestions, answers all our questions patiently, and just made us feel like family. Like he treated us how he would treat his own during this overwhelming time. He answered all our emails promptly and even called when he needed to discuss a more sensitive matter. During the grieving time your mind doesn't work as it should- or at least mine doesn't - it was a comfort to work with Ricki and the rest of the kind ladies in the office who remained professional but caring with each interaction we had. Mahalo to Ricki and these ladies who obviously care and want to make sure our loved ones and us are at peace.

We recently attended a relative's service here on 10-10-24. Things haven't changed much since I…read moreheld my father's service here in 2006. For both services, the deceased had funeral plans with Hosoi making it a lot easier. This company had been in business for so long that it is reputable, organized and the program runs smoothly. Personally I'm glad it was in English without the senko(incense)offering. They set up a table for friends and family to sign in and give their koden(money envelopes) to the family. There are ample benched seating for the guests during the service both in and out.. Inside is nice, comfortable and air conditioned. Podium and microphone are present. You can show a video on the screen as part of your program. You can select your clergy person along with who does the eulogy or remembrances of your dearly departed. After the service it's customary to provide refreshments or a meal to your guests in their outside dining hall. The one we just attended got their deluxe bentos from Natsunoya and 3 kinds of mochi, manju from Kansai Yamato for dessert. Beverages are also provided. There are two toilets available for your guests.guests

The courtesy of the director lady there. She was cold and rude. Our service for my grandmother and…read moreuncle ran a couple minutes over and she kicked us out She threatened that their burial would be canceled if we didn't get out!! The carpet needs to be replaced in the chapel It has stains on the floor.

This is more of a technical review as well as a review for a specific funeral director since most…read moreother aspects were already covered in other Yelp reviews. I was impressed by the modern technology at the Diamond Head chapel that makes it convenient to display your videos and slide shows. Two large screen monitors are built in the chapel and one was in the lounge area where all share the same images. As an AV person, I can appreciate not having to setup a portable projection screen & projector on table and bring a separate sound system for it that is required at many other funeral venues. The wall monitors are easily visible in the ambient lighting compared to a projector and screen. The audio from the video/slide show were conveniently fed into the house sound system. The podium microphone was a high quality Shure gooseneck condenser microphone so it sounded very clear and the thin gooseneck was unobtrusive. Wyatt, who was the onsite funeral director, was professional, quick, attentive, talented and caring in all aspects of his services. He's not one to stand around doing nothing and has a keen sense of attention to detail as evidenced by him picking up trash to make everything perfect. He surprised us by playing the trumpet during the burial ceremony. Many professional musicians who happened to be in attendance commented on his skillful playing. Turns out he's an accomplished trumpet player as well as an instructor. I would recommend Diamond Head Mortuary and Wyatt as your funeral director.

Our visit to the Byodo-In Temple was deeply personal and meaningful. The fam and I were on the…read moreisland to visit family members who have passed and are laid to rest at Valley of the Temples (as well as at the nearby Veterans cemetery). Beginning our time there at the temple felt like the most peaceful and grounding way to start. From the moment we walked in, everything slowed down. Even though there were several groups of visitors, everyone was quiet and respectful, which preserved a beautiful sense of calm. The temple is a stunning replica of the historic Byōdō-in in Japan, and it's absolutely breathtaking in person. The large Buddha statue inside is gigantic and awe-inspiring. We bought a small bag of food and scattered pellets into the different ponds where bright koi fish gathered in clusters, Turtles, Peacocks, wild cats rested in shaded corners, and the birds (so accustomed to visitors) ate directly out of our hands. We lit incense together and took a few quiet moments to reflect on the family members we were there to honor. Ringing the sacred bell before entering felt symbolic , like setting an intention for remembrance and gratitude. Parking is a nightmare and there is a small fee. But you will get back what you put in because it is a gentle, meaningful, and peaceful way to begin your visit should you find yourself in this side of the island.

I have been here many times due to having someone very dear to me buried in the Cathedral View…read moresection. Overall this is one of the most peaceful places that I have ever been and if you haven't taken a full temple tour please ask to take part in one, if time allows. I love the temple gift shop and the employees are so nice ... They have just about every little (and some big) memento that you could want and they even sell bird and fish food so you have the option of filling your hand with bird seed and then holding out your hand... the birds will eat from your hand... OR you can visit the coi pond, take a seat and feed the fish. Both are equally peaceful.

Grace Mortuary truly lives up to its name. From the very beginning to the final goodbye, they stood…read moreby our side with care, compassion, and support. They answered every question, listened when we needed to talk, and helped in more ways than we can count. As we laid our beloved mother to rest, Grace Mortuary handled everything with grace and dignity. Because of them, we were able to say goodbye beautifully, creating memories we'll treasure forever. A special thank you to the hearse drivers, Charlie and Uncle. From start to finish, your kindness and respect touched our hearts deeply. You treated our mother like your own and reminded us what true community feels like. There are no words that can fully express our gratitude -- but from the bottom of our hearts, thank you.

Thank you Tala, siale, vai and team for your outstanding service!! As a mother thats grieving the…read moresudden death of her 19year old son, I can honestly say I was filled with so much peace through the whole process. You all have erased my worries,stress on who, and what will be happening next, or the where will my son be ?? I also had questions of will my son's body be treated with love and care?? You all have given this grieving mother an opportunity to visit and see my son's flesh as many times I was allowed. The hardest part for me was letting go of his flesh, so I had him in there for 1mo. Until I was ready to part ways. You have never rushed me, nor have you contact me about payments through the whole month my child was in your care. You all have kept me updated, and was very sympathetic towards my emotions. Tala thank you for allowing this grieving mother to properly grieve, but also ensuring that you guys are here for me and whatever i needed pertaining to my child you all were 100% supportive! Thank you for also keeping your word in being present at my son's service as I have requested. I know you all have so much going on, and a business to run, but you and siale have been so supportive through the whole process, and vai thank you for also being a helping hand in prepping my child for his BIG DAY to shine, and he sure DID!!! My son was so beautiful! His casket was beautiful and the designs on his casket as I requested was high quality, the picture did no justice because what I seen in person was STUNNING!!! Thank YOU to your team, and the beautiful young ladies at the office who stayed in contact at all times, and thank you siale for allowing me to know the story of why Grace mortuary is called Grace. Tala, you inspire me. Your daughter Grace is very proud. you have taken your grieving and turn it into a beautiful business letting your child's name live on through your business in helping another like myself who is going through it. Siale, Thank you for the many laughters and inspiring stories you give. Thank you also for being very stern when I couldnt at times with everyone else. Thank You Grace mortuary for inspiring me to also one day make sure my child's name doesn't die but will live on in something I can also accomplish and dedicate to him one day. God Bless!!! #Forever19 #LLT

My father purchased a viewing/service plan with cremation. Everything went perfectly from the day…read moreof his passing to the service. The staff was exceptionally helpful and answered all of our questions. The service area was clean, set up and ready to go. Thank you so much for all that you do.

We went through Borthwick with mom in 2018 and everything went smooth…read more We went through them again for my dad who passed mid November. We had the appointment with Marilou. At first it was fine. She didn't really have many answers for the questions we had. She also didn't show any intent on finding out the answers. Initially they were small things that we just brushed off. Then later into the meeting we had questions about my dad being buried with military honors. Again, she didn't have answers and didn't show any type of concern in finding them out. She said there was somebody recently who didn't get and he was high ranking. That's an unacceptable answer. That's when red flags starting flying around in all of our heads. She just didn't give a f*ck enough to verify anything. She made the whole process so much more stressful than it already was. We wanted to pay with insurance, since one of the insurance is through a local State Farm office and they can cut a check quickly, like they did with my mom. She kept arguing that insurance can't do that quickly and that we need to finance through them, taking an over $18k bill to $20k. She finally agreed to talk to her boss and call us later. There are due dates for photos, obituaries, and other things that I submitted prior to any due dates. I received email confirmation on them. Fast forward to the weekend before his funeral. No obituary anywhere. Not in the paper and not online. We have to wait until Monday to speak to anybody. I leave a message Sunday for Marilou. The lady says that she will give a call by 9 am on Monday. No call. We go down there and she's busy with another family. Merci comes to help us. The department that was in charge of posting the obituaries was busy but told Merci they posted it online on the 9th. We check, and sure enough it's posted. They insist to Merci it had already been up online, but they're not sure why it wasn't in the paper. They said they can rush and get one in the next morning which was the day of his funeral. We all argued it absolutely was not posted prior to that morning. Merci was able to verify that it was in fact just posted online that morning, the 15th. They lied and threw her under the bus. My dad was 90, not much people his age look online for obituaries. There was no other way for us to contact most of them. We could only contact family. Day of the funeral, paper has the obituary. Edwin and the limo driver (I'm so sorry I forgot his name) were so kind and everything almost went smooth. I was told previously by Marilou that we would have the service, go to punch bowl for the burial, then come back and pack up the food. 20 minutes before they were going to close the casket I was told by the lady in the kitchen that everything had to be packed up and cleared out. We had so much food because the obituary didn't get posted online until the day before and then in the paper that morning. We had to scramble and then almost missed them closing the casket. It was so much added stress. Aside from Marilou and the department that screwed up the obituary, everybody else there was very nice. TLDR: The whole thing was made to be unnecessarily stressful. 100% satisfaction is bs. Having to go back and double check everything, and then being blindsided by things we didn't even think of until it went wrong was just ridiculous. Everything needs to be done right because there are no redos here. We can't go back and fix everything. That's the most frustrating part. My dad deserved it to be done right, and they just screwed up at every opportunity.

Absolutely beautifully maintained grounds. Gorgeous views all around…read more Peaceful and serene atmosphere abound here. Paying my respects to my loved ones here. I'm always blessed with a feeling that my loved ones are happy here. I really miss them. Visiting here gives me a way to say I love you.

UNACCEPTABLE Hawaiian Memorial woman's bathroom…read more Has not been cleaned in along time. Rubbish, grass clippings, dead leaves, dead 747 S in the sink. Do better, especially on holidays, Mothers Day!! Family will be visiting loved ones.