Specialties
My specialty is helping couples through the three biggest challenges of marriage, as follows:
* Communication, not arguing
* Sex, intimacy and passion, not cheating, lying, and withholding
* Rebuilding trust by defining the future, no longer worrying about all the little day-to-day details of life
How? Because my wife and I experienced the exact same thing. We were married for 7 years; we had a year-old twin boys, and we argued all the time. There was no passion and no intimacy, and we no longer understood each other.
We went to the best therapists in Miami. We both clearly stated at the beginning of our session, that we did not want to get divorced.
We wanted a solution!
We rehashed all our problems, told all our stories, explained our childhoods and left in no better shape than when we started. At the end of one session, our therapist advised us to get a divorce. I told him I wanted my money back and he refused!
In-person meetings are hosted on my home office in West Kendall. I do offer "house calls" to couples working together with complicated schedules or young children for $70 extra.
All I ask is that you do not lie about your feelings or desires and that you make clear conscious decisions about what you want moving forward.
Contact me today for a free pre-qualification session by phone to see
History
Established in 2010.
One of the leading voices in helping couples define marriage - beyond boredom, beyond love, towards meaningful purpose - Matthew Hoelscher is a sex and relationship coach who helps couples find self-mastery by making marriage a living practice instead of just a legal agreement.
Everyone assumes to know what marriage is, yet few actually define their commitments and agreements until after infidelity or worse a divorce lawyer. Matthew helps couples put everything on the table, create a vision, and define agreements around what is important and what is optional for each partner to deepen their self-actualization.
Matthew brings together progressive ideas, personal experience, loving unconditional acceptance, and accredited coaching to create marriages of trust, love and growth for both the parents to be passed on to their children. He also maintains an extensive library of historic sexual teachings of Tantric, Taoist, Kabbalah and Christian Gnostic mystery schools.
Meet the Business Owner: Matthew H.
His academic qualifications include Bachelors of Liberal Studies at Iowa State University, Professional Coaching Certification from the University of Miami and accreditation from the International Coach Federation.
He is certified to assess Emotional Intelligence using the EQi 2.0 from MHS. He is also a Distinguished Toastmaster (DTM), cave and deep wreck exploration diver, sailor, avid photographer, and has read over 500 books in 7 years placing him in the top 1% of readers worldwide.
During the week he runs a thriving coaching practice at his home office in Miami, Florida. On the weekends, he runs workshops on health and wellbeing at his personal retreat center.
When not busy saving marriages, he is taking his beautiful wife and twin boys on adventures in the Everglades or the Atlantic Ocean, gardening, yoga, meditation, or mountain biking.
