I had a phone intake to 'see if I was a good fit'. The girl called 15 minutes early. I explained my medical stuff. I said I needed to speak with my spouse because they wanted $1500.00, don't take insurance even for labs, and they refused to take lab results even though I was getting them done for a physical immediately before seeing them.
Then it got weird. I felt like I was being sold a time-share. She kept trying to say it's better when couples do it together and she could arrange for my spouse to have the same day appointment as myself. Now, I never said my spouse wanted anything to do with it other than we needed to talk money. Then I had told her during the intake my grandfather, his brother and his father all died young - she told me she was sorry for my loss. They died like 40 years ago. Then, when I told her it felt unprofessional and I mentioned my career role she told me she had a Bachelors in psychology! So I did a medical intake with a non medical person who tried repeatedly to book me an appointment telling me they were filling up fast. huge red flags all the way around. Huge. read more