Casey D, the SAME exact thing happened to me!!
A few weeks ago I went to the Wayside Inn Grist Mill to have a family picnic with some visiting relatives. I showed them the chapel in which I will be getting married in at the end of this month. To my dismay, the steeple was surrounded by big metal scaffolding. I also tried to reach the Wayside Inn several times. I tried to stay positive and hope that the work will be done by my wedding-- which, I might add, has been planned for over a year now, AND has been ALL PAID FOR for more than 6 months now. Just this past week- about one month since I first noticed the work being done- I received the same letter in the mail, informing me that this is the only time the work can be done, it cannot be postponed, and that this is when they first found out about it- liars! I was crushed- the whole reason I chose the Wayside Inn was for the beautiful chapel! The letter also states that I should not only expect the metal scaffolding to be up, but also there will be many ladders that will leaning up against the chapel- they are not even willing to take those down for one day!! Let's pray one of them does not fall on any of my wedding guests! I also asked them for some reimbursement, a gift certificate, anything- and I got the same rude reply of "if you don't like it, get married somewhere else"- sure, it's only 2 weeks before my wedding, I'm sure I won't have ANY trouble finding someplace else! The function coordinator seems to be much more concerned with the historical aspect of the grounds, like a museum curator, rather than the function planning- in fact she seems almost offended that anyone would want to get married there. There is a silver lining for me though, luckily my photographer has photographed weddings there before and said we could use those pictures from previous weddings, just to get nice shots of the chapel itself. I am sad I can't get any with us in them, but luckily there's still the grist mill. Unless they decide to do something there as well. read more