My Father Mark Cameron is an absolutely terrible person. He's trying to say he's autistic and hide behind that for his behavior but I have had conversations with him while a therapist was present, as well as gone over all my communications and childhood. My therapist believes he is a narcissist. He is obsessed with money and his image, but anyone that actually knows him or grew up with him knows who he is. He kicked my mother in the stomach when she was pregnant, tormented her with the court systems, and by making me and my siblings absolutely miserable and would constantly try to manipulate and get information out of us to use against my mom. Growing up I was absolutely terrified of my father.
He would pull me in private after treating me like crap for weeks before a court date. He would love bomb me and say how much he cares and that what I say in the courts will determine whether or not I get to stay with him. For some reason all I ever wanted was to have a relationship with him. I could go on and on about all the things he's done to me psychologically but that doesn't hold much weight for him.
He convinced my aunt, his sister, to give him everything she had financially and that he would set her up and get her a place and get her to be able to live in America because she's from England. Her family moved in, he took all the money they had for their future, and didn't follow through on his promises. They had to go back to England and start over from scratch.
His mother was not doing well towards the end of her life, and wasn't mentally able to take care of herself. He ended up stealing all of his mother's money and putting her in a home that was absolutely terrible and abusive. But it was cheap, more leftover for him. His sister had to step in and legally force him to give over his mother and allow his sister, who is actually in England and can check in and visit her mother. He was thousands of miles away in California.
When I lived with him during COVID after not speaking to him for over 10 years, I had talked to my nan on the phone and I could tell she wasn't well. But he just put it off to age. It wasn't until much later I figured out what happened. He promised my mom when she divorced him that he would absolutely destroy her. He used his kids as pawns in his sick psychological abuse.
The entire time I lived with him, all he did was watch the sopranos like and say how much he related to Tony the main character.... Who's whole character is that heals a murderous sociopathic control freak. He talked terribly about all his friends, coworkers and acquaintances. He gossiped about people's family drama, people's divorce and just talked about all these people he was associated with like they were all idiots. Said things like "You never know what people have and what kind of business deals you can make." I'm paraphrasing but pretty much after hanging out with him for a few months, EVERYTHING, revolved around money, BUISNESS, and the pleasures of life like traveling and trying expensive high quality food and how coffee in Italy is so much better. Meanwhile the only way my mom was able to get her kids out of the absolute psychological torture that her and her kids were going through, was to sign something that said my dad didn't have to pay the 100s of thousands of dollars of child support he evaded for years.
He got his licence taken away because he wouldn't pay and had to have his wife drive everywhere. None of his biological kids talk to him. He tried to take my brother's kids and manipulate the crap out of until he cut him off. He said my sister only asked for money so he had to cut her off. I have asked my father for money in the past to help with bills and things, for 2 years he sent 100 bucks to me on my birthday and new years after I had started reaching out again. But that's the thing. I told him through text, over the phone, every time he sent me money. That I don't need the money, it helps, but I would like him to reach out to me and start building a relationship. After I realized I was the only one to ever call him, I decided to stop calling and I said Ill wait until he calls. I didn't get a call for 2 years. Even though on about 15 different occasions I had asked him to reach out and check in. He said "oh I just figured I'd give you space" like he was doing me a favor. No, I want my father to be excited to talk to me and reach out and help me with my struggles as a young man, and he refuses.
I am absolutely terrified for the kids that he has adopted. Between him and his wife, they are some of the most evil caretakers I know of, and I pray that it was all do to a hatred for my mom, and not the kids. Because his wife kids are super successful, and he reminds me any time I talk to him like somehow it's my mom's fault his kids are the way they are.
There was sexual abuse going on at some point in his household. I don't know if he di read more