Really need to share my experience as I feel like Ive been at the hands of a 'guru scammer' and…read morewould be upset to know that other women might have experienced the same without the courage to speak up.
Firstly, I am in the holistic realm of touch therapy, tantric practice, aromatherapy and energy healing. So I know exactly what I look for in a practitioner when getting massages/healing.
Rosario is nice enough and welcoming and has a beautiful space, but our pre chat was mostly about him and his poly / s3xual relationships that he has with a lot of his clients, and how hes being shouted holidays with alot of these women.
He spoke in depth about other clients experiences, and one of which was a sad story which I will not repeat for confidentiality. Whilst I hold compassion for other people, feeling sad was not what I wanted to hear before entering an embodied s3nsual massage. All this talk was cutting into my massage time as well.
I made the right call to not get a y0ni massage and opted for just a s3nsual relaxation massage instead. I didnt feel right letting this mans fingers inside me.
As I was lying naked and vulnerable on the table, Rosario made comments at how great my a$$ is, how great my br3asts are, how hot my body is. This is absolutely not OK and I should have spoken up at the time but I also wanted to learn about the massage and how he structures it because its something I want to start practicing. These personal comments about my body, as well as hearing that hes in s3xual relations with his clients made my body feel really UNSAFE therefore I couldnt drop into my body or the experience and enjoy it. I felt my energy body instantly put up a wall.
Another huge disappointment was throughout the whole massage, he kept asking me questions. "Do you go to the gym because your body is amazing?", "how tall are you?", " What does this tattoo here mean?"....
This is so disembodying and forcing me into my head and not allowing me to enjoy the massage. What massage ever includes talking thats not related to the pressure or focus points of massage?
He was leaning against the massage table which I totally get creates stability and comfort for the practitioner, but several times my elbow could feel his g3nitals and I kept trying to move my arm in closer to my body to avoid this happening. Sure, sometimes it can happen by mistake but I feel like this just added to the experience.
When I rolled onto my back and he saw my br3asts, he said "This is the part where I suck br3asts, no only joking"
I dont care what kind of joke that is, its disgusting to make that comment. Again, I put up with it. As he was massaging my pubic area and £abia, he made comment "you have a really nice y0ni"....
At the end once I was dressed and had my wallet out, I was tempted to say "Im not paying" but thats something else Im navigating, to speak up face to face, I did however have the courage to say "Do you mind if I leave you some constructive feedback", however, I didnt fully finish my sentence because Rosario leaned in for a hug. I managed to get out "Do you mind if I leave you some constructive....."
After we hugged, he said "you give great hugs" and then proceeded to ask questions about my van and then tell me about an expensive van he wants to buy. OK, so now I feel UNHEARD and he didnt have the awareness to say "sorry i cut you off what were you going to say?" or maybe he did and was just being avoidant because he could sense that I was aware of his behaviour?
Therefore, I am leaving this review.
Im sure alot of his regular married clients are happy that they get to see this "tantric guru" and have multiple 0rgasms, but as a holistic practitioner myself, someone who was seeking a legitimate tantric experience and to learn something for my own career, this just screams S3XUAL SCAM. Rosario was not energetically attuned at all and is just offering a high paid s3xual service. Really dissapointed but hopefully this review can alert women to what theyre really paying for.
Also the massage itself was not great, Ive had better off unqualified friends.
