It's kinda sad how our Little Green Tree House adventure ended. Our daughter went there for a year and a half as a 2 and 3 year-old, and it went rather well the whole time, but even from the day we first visited (I remember we were super impressed that day!), we had heard it was managed quite commercially and money-driven rather than a passion project, and we had made the choice to be fine with it; but the last moments insisted on the compromise over care for kids there can sometimes be.
The reasons we left were good and we were disappointed but not bitter at all about them. LGTH has been full at the 3-yo level, so they haven't been able to graduate 3-yo kids in 2-yo classes to that level since August. Initially it was presented as a temporary setback, but there was no date set to make it right, and we were worried that our daughter, as one of the oldest kids in her class, wouldn't get older kids as role models for a while. So we enquired and eventually found out that the actual plan was to let her 2-yo class (Pine) get older until all kids are 3 and it's a 3-yo class. This was an unpleasant surprised even more so because we had switched Lila from 2 to 3 days a week a couple of months before, asked if there would be space at the upper level back then, and the direction had committed that there would be. We shared our concerns about the lack of role models for an entire year until she'd turn 4; but the direction explained that they weren't concerned by that at all and would rather that she stays in Pine until then anyway. So, we set ourselves on a path to find a school with room at the 3-yo level.
It was a disappointing way to end a relationship, but we were ok with it. It's great that LGTH has so many students at the 3-yo level; I wish the strategy had been more clearly communicated from the start, but that's ok, that met our communication expectations with LGTH, but I feel it also was a good reason for us to seek something else.
What happened next though, is what we don't find acceptable, that prompted this review. As soon as we put our notice, we received warm wishes for happy continuation, but then Lila started to be clearly made to feel excluded every day at school during those 30 days, and she looked sadder and sadder by the day.
For instance: all locker names were replaced with a pretty "Christmassy" one; all but Lila's, who now didn't have any. All students in the class were assigned a task they were responsible for (helping to clean up, being first in the line to go to the park, ...); all of them but Lila. The theme of her last week was the countries that the students' origins are from, which was a great idea because in the class there are Indian origins, German origins, ... We immigrated from France 4 years ago and Lila is a French citizen; you guessed it, she wasn't at all represented all week. This last event wasn't related to anything long term, it was literally the theme for that week only, this is what confirmed that the exclusion had been intentional.
It's really silly because our relationship with the school was still great until the end. I can't see why they would make our daughter pay for something that was not even an adult-level problem... Even if there was one I would be angry that the kid would pay, but since there wasn't one, I'm also confused!
On the plus side, we visited tons of other schools in the neighborhood, and LGTH has an indoor play space like nobody else does, which is extremely useful in the winter. Newport Children's Academy is likely going to take the throne with an indoor play space that should be bigger (half their second floor in the huge factory building they built the school in), but it's only planned to be done in February last I heard, so as it stands today, LGTH is way on top of anyone else.
Also, most teachers are there driven by passion, and they care a lot about the kids; which matters a lot, because at the end of the day it is them that your kid will spend their time with. The downside though is that they're probably not greatly compensated, because the turnover is intense, so your mileage may vary, even over time in the same class.
Also, beware, they do the thing where they close the school a lot in the year (a whole week at Christmas) but you still pay for it. They're far from being the only school to do that in the neighborhood, but there are also a bunch that manage without doing that. Think of asking schools how many days a year they're closed when you visit, and who pays for those days (we learned that the hard way).
Overall, it's not at all a bad school, and most of the time was really good; but be aware that it can turn unexpectedly sour for reasons that can hurt the kid's well-being, which is really disappointing... read more