Starting preschool for a two year old should be a fun, exciting experience. As they are still in the age where running around and tickling is fun. I explained to the school that my son had never been in a daycare/preschool and the one time we tried she sent him home on his first day because he was running around & was not catching onto the routine. HIS FIRST DAY. I knew she just didn't want to take the time to work with him, so I thought preschool would be a better option for him. Lil Explorers mislead me and told me that they're patient to help him and understanding when it comes to this, that they don't expect him to catch on in a day. Well, within his first 3 days they were already sending him home with "bad" notes. Saying he's running around and opening doors. He did pull a little girls hair, in which yes, he does deserve a bad note for that. But he's a energetic toddler and running around should be expected. I'm not sure what they expected from him, as he just turned two! I don't know a two year old that just sits down for long periods of time. Thursday (his 2nd day) his speech therapist went in to do a session, they sat in on it and were asking her questions on how to "fix" him. Friday (his 3rd day) he was jumping in puddles outside so his socks/shoes/pants were soaked and instead of changing him, she left him soak throughout lunch and nap (3 hours) & dad picked him up she told him she just didn't have the time. He was already catching a cough, so leaving him soak makes it worse. Tuesday (his 4th day) his therapist went in again, and they told her "oh finally we get a break" like if he's this horrible kid? If their ratio wasn't 1 teacher to 12 TODDLERS maybe they would be able to have the patience to work with them. She said he was sitting on the carpet just crying, no one was caring for him. Dad picked him up and my son was by himself in a different area from where the kids nap, crying with BLANKET OVER HIS HEAD!!! His cot was soaked!!! Dad picked him up about 2:40pm and nap is supposed to be over at 2:30 but because the teacher is late from lunch they're forced to stay laying down, even though other kids from classrooms next to them are getting up. They don't show any love nor compassion, how could they leave him just crying all the time, instead of calling his parents. They labeled him negative since the first day & had no patience to make him feel at home. They are supposed to be professionals and if they can not adjust then they shouldn't be in this business. Every child is different with different personalities, they should know this and help him cope with this new environment he's in. Instead they alienated him.
I'm saddened as I thought this would be a great experience for my baby, I wanted him to have fun while me and dad were at work but instead it was misery. Instead of trying to redirect him to a different activity, or comfort him, they just emotionally abused him and didn't care for his feelings. This was all new to my family and they made it horrible experience.
Also When I went over paperwork it says ratio of toddlers should be 1:6, Ms. Dawn (Director) kept trying to push that I was wrong it's 1:12, I posted a picture of what it directly says in the paperwork. read more