I was literally disregarded by the staff. Treated as though I didn't exist. It was the most bizarre and dehumanising thing I think I've ever experienced.
After a long day of running errands all over London, I was able to sneak away from my group for a wander and pint. That's when I stumbled on this intimate concept beer joint that I'd happened upon once on a prior trip.
I'd previously had such a great experience, that I cheerfully went in. That's when it gets strange.
The lady working there (purple dyed hair) was cashing out a couple customers so I waited. She didn't greet me or tell me I could take a seat.
Once they paid, she turned around and started washing glasses. Like a lot of glasses. I was just standing there and another customer made eye contact with me and so I asked if I was just supposed to sit down or what... she told me that the lady would help me... but after washing the glasses, she hand dried each one... then after that she kept her back turned to me, and commenced to doing something on her phone for at least 5 minutes.
The encounter lasted about 10 minutes. Not once was I greeted or acknowledged. Nothing.
You might think this could be normal in a normal bar, but it was painfully awkward because it's a TINY place. I'm still confused and disappointed. I'd looked forward to having a beer after a long day and instead I was treated like a zero. read more