If you want a simple wedding ceremony he is your man. Dont get too elaborate. We did not have a ring bearer so we decided on a ring warming ceremony instead. Our rings we to be passed around to each guest to hold and warm with their hands and love. I provided this to my wedding planner and to John and his wife well in advance of the wedding. This ceremony and instructions were to be the 1st thing read at the beginning after welcoming all. It was never mentioned. And even though I had it printed on the 1st page of my programs my planner neglected to actually have them given to my guests nor did she point out the ceremony. But that is why I asked for it to be included as part of the service. My guests had no clue what to do, they thought I was passing our rings around to brag or something. The ONE thing I wanted in my ceremony and they couldn't do it. I wasn't asking for some lame sand or candle ceremony. I just asked for a few sentences about passing my rings around. I even provided the script to boot, the EXACT thing printed in the program. Also when I met them months before he wedding to discuss the ring ceremony I also asked for him to mention we wanted a group photo and for ask everyone to stick around for that. Not a single hint of this. However I must say he filed the marriage quickly we had the paperwork waiting for us at the reception. read more