If you have the chance, RUN, don't walk to Dr. Towery! I found out about Dr. Towery via a colleague of his. She mentioned that although his rates are at a premium, that occasionally he chooses 1 person for short intensive work for free! I contacted Dr. Towery and asked to be considered for such a premium spot, having no idea if there would be any chance of acceptance. To my surprise, Dr. Towery called me and interviewed me. He was very nice on the phone and he wanted to get a better understanding of my issues. I shared struggles with generalized anxiety, major depressive disorder, and my fairly recent recovery story from a catastrophic stroke. He was encouraged by my responses and asked me to read 3 books, start meditating, and start exercising 3-4 days a week to the point of sweating. I would have 2 months to do this. He wanted to see how committed I was to the possible opportunity so our plan was to check-in in 1 month with my progress and thoughts on just that homework. I did so and lucky me, he decided to work with me after all. We set 4 days aside for intensive therapy from 10 am - 5 pm. I was so excited! I would be getting about $20k worth of therapy for free! I've been depressed my entire life it seems.
It even got better. He emailed me shortly after asking if it would be ok to have 2-3 of his trainees, join in the process so that they could learn from him in real-time as well. A strong believer in therapy, I said "Sure. The more the merrier."
It's the last day of our work together and I feel strongly compelled to let others know how skilled this man is and what a gift I got!
I found his approach to be quite empathetic, methodical, informed, and at times, even fun! He's a genuinely nice person who cares extraordinarily about his patients. Not only is he a very enjoyable person, but he's a wealth of information. His tool kit is huge. He'll try 1 strategy and if that doesn't resonate in a convincing way, he's got 4 more at the ready! He is absolutely committed to my genuine success. He began by carefully listening during a very extensive intake session that lasted all day. He was able to add ADHD - inattentive subtype, social anxiety, PTSD, and panic attacks to my list of challenges. This was so great because there are and treatments and sometimes meds for these challenges that I can employ and the potential impact is great. Managing these can really upgrade my life!
His approach has many tiers. He taught me cognitive, behavioral, meditative/mindfulness tools to use right away. I would say Dr. Towery is very results-focused and pragmatic. He created a safe space for me to be vulnerable which I so appreciated. His students actually added a lot to the experience too by chiming in with observations and helping with role-playing. The students were the icing on the therapeutic cake!
He's a fan of practicing and reasonable amounts of homework so I can practice the tools. He checked in often to see how I was doing. I always had the chance to ask questions. He's one of the most non-judgemental people I've ever met and the compassion in his DNA makes for a very productive session every time. Dr. Towery delivers. He's not one of those therapists that just listen and don't say anything. He challenges me and comes up with creative ways of solving problems. It's not easy work - changing the way you've lived your life for 50 years takes quite a bit of discipline, but with the tools I've adopted and the notes I took, I'm confident that with practice I can seriously upgrade my life. In fact, in just 4 days, my overall happiness has significantly improved. I will be forever grateful for the generosity of Dr. Towery and his team. If you're lucky enough to see this man, do yourself a favor and give yourself or your loved one the gift. read more