I got married here last month.
Pros:
The venue is beautiful, which you will immediately see. The combination of the barn, garden, and open reception space overlooking the beautiful green grounds will allow for some amazing pictures. There's also an owl that you can rent (we didn't). The price is very reasonable - under $3k for all three spaces. The artwork in the reception space was charming every time we visited and during our wedding.
Cons:
The Pros, you'll see for yourself very quickly. The Cons you won't, so I want to make sure to explain them here so you fully understand what this decision will mean for you. In short, the venue is completely inflexible. About anything. In fact, the people there are so inflexible that you can't help but wonder if they're inflexible just for the sake of it, or perhaps because they like to envision the bride and groom pulling out all of their hair. Denise, the events coordinator that you will interface with, seems pleasant enough at first and I'm sure that in her normal life she is a lovely woman. But, you will find that any appeals to logic, empathy, or even basic humanity fall on deaf ears with her and the rest of her cronies. Any requests to change the contract, even for common sense courtesies, will be denied. One example was that we wanted to add in a clause that allowed for us to non-destructively attach things to beams in the barn. Agreed to verbally, but when we asked to put it in the contract? Denied. Adding a very standard Force Majuere clause? Denied. For any requested changes, you'll get the response: "our contract was written by an attorney and approved by our board of trustees" and that the process to change the contract is too cumbersome. To us, it felt like more of an indication that the people there couldn't be bothered by it.
Other examples:
* We asked if they had a podium we could use. They said yes. We expressed our excitement and mentioned that we wanted to use it in the barn. Then we were told that the podium had to stay in the reception space (even though the barn was between 100 and 200 feet away. Fail.
* Similarly, we wanted to use one of the tables from the reception space for table cards. We wanted to put it 5 feet outside the reception space. But, we were told again that nothing could be brought outside the reception space.
* There's hay in the barn and we wanted to use it as a prop. We were told that if we touched it or tried to move it, they'd melt our faces off. Or essentially something like that.
* You'll be subject to fines if you can't clean the place out entirely before 12 PM. They have someone at the venue to make sure of it.
* You can't get into the reception space before 3 PM. Our wedding planner arrived early and needed to use the restroom and was almost turned away by the staff. With no events going on in the space, and no one in there, our vendors were still forced to wait outside until the clock hit exactly 3 PM. If you've ever seen Meet the Parents, where Greg has to needlessly wait at the gate while no one else is around, you can picture what I'm talking about.
At the end of the day, weddings are not a priority for this venue. Their funding/business model doesn't depend on it at all. The money they make from weddings is a "nice to have" at most. Recognizing that their space is beautiful and having received requests for weddings there, they made the option available. But, it's clear that they believe that alone to have been a major favor for anyone who decides to go for it. As a result, there is no incentive, nor desire, to accommodate any requests from the bride and groom at all. It becomes very evident that they could take or leave your business, putting all of the leverage squarely on their side.
If we didn't have a wedding planner to help us navigate all of their arbitrary rules, I don't know what we would have done. Certainly, I think that coordination of all of the vendors to set up and especially to tear down, such that you comply with the venue's restrictions, without a wedding planner would add considerable stress to your day.
If you're going to go with this place, just make sure you truly understand the level of frustration you and your vendors will experience. A wedding planner is a must. And so is a punching bag. read more