Marli was the lead midwife on call of my birth team when I went into labor. She exceeded my expectations. You can tell she is very experienced and comfortable around birth. She was a sure and steady, but never obtrusive presence. I knew she was there if I needed anything and she was kind of like a stealth ninja, helping out and monitoring while I just wanted to zone out. I planned a water birth and spent a good while in the water, but my baby got stuck on my perineum for hours. Marli was never pushy, but would give suggestions for positions to try or thing that might help. She was good about making sure I had my cold washcloth switched out often, which definitely gave her bonus angel points because I'm pretty sure ice cold washcloths are what got me through labor.
My labor did end up requiring a couple minor interventions, and knowing how rarely my birth team used these interventions I had no issue agreeing to them, because I trusted their judgement. I knew I was in competent hands with Marli and that my baby and I would be okay.
I look back at my home birth happily because I felt my body, opinions, and baby were cared about and respected. We had a very successful, awesome birth thanks to Marli! We would 100% trust Marli with the birth of our child again! read more