Let me begin by giving you a little bit of information about my situation. I am a single mother of one 18-month-old boy, and I recieve no child support from my son's other parent, no cash or food assistance from the state, and no other means of financial help. I do, however, recieve child care assistance through the government, because I would be unable to support my child and I without the Childcard Subsidy Program. Back in December I went back to work after being a stay-at-home mother for the beginning of my son's life (I have since found myself single and have moved my son and I in with my parents). When I first contacted Gig Harbor KinderCare, the school director, Brenda, impressed me very much with her enthusiasm, kindness and ability to address every concern I had about the facility. I was feeling confident about my child's first daycare and she eased a lot of my worries. My son was scheduled to begin in the beginning of January, as I had started working at that point. Once that time rolled around and I called Brenda to confirm that my son would be good to go, she informed me that she no longer had room for my son, and delayed his start date to the beginning of February. At this point, I chalked it up to an honest mistake and figured I should have been more diligent in calling her to ensure he had a spot. When February rolled around, after working for an entire month without child care and flying by the seat of my pants, spending my entire paychecks on paying a babysitter $10/hr, I met with Brenda to finish up some paperwork before he was due to begin the following week. As I was in her office filling out paperwork, I noticed that the forms I was signing already had a different child (with the same name as my son) written into them. I told her that she had given me the wrong packet, and she exclaimed "Oh my goodness! I must have been speaking to two different mothers and thinking they were the same person! You must have been so excited to get him started on Monday!". My son's name is fairly uncommon, so at this point, though somewhat annoyed, I gave Brenda the benefit of the doubt and wrote the mistake off as an honest one once again. I did begin to question, once leaving her office, why she immediately prioritized the other child over mine. Perhaps because the other child's parents were paying privately; a luxury I can not afford. Being that I utilized my mother for babysitting during the weekends when she was not working, she was reasonably irrate when I told her the news, and called Brenda for some clarification about why he was not starting. Brenda informed us that my son would without a doubt be able to begin at the beginning of March, so another month went by of scrambling to find childcare at the last minute. March 13th was the date we were given for him to start, and on the Friday before, I decided to call Brenda one more time to ensure that my son would be clear to start on Monday. Once again, Brenda informed me that she would be unable to take my son due to a lack of space in her classrooms and some construction in progress on the building. She even made the remmark "Your mother is not going to be happy with me!". She was right about that. Why was all of this information not communicated to me when it was first realized? Why was I being promised something three times over when she was unable to keep her word? I began to feel that Brenda's attitude had changed from warm to condescending. My mom called Brenda, rightfully irrate, and asked her once again what had happened. She made rude comments to my mother over the phone including "Who even IS this?" and "Well I'm TRYING to help you." She gave us the next start date as March 27th. As a family who prides themselves on being kind to others and not complaining unless absolutely necessary and justified, the fact that my mother called the Regional Director of KinderCare speaks volumes. My mother voiced her concerns both on the phone as well as in an email written to their corporate office and so far she has yet to recieve a response. I feel that Brenda's behavior as someone in charge of running a business has been careless, unprofessional and predjudiced against my family because we are receiving assistance for tuition. My son will not be attending this facility now or ever. read more