Earlier this month on a Sat night I think, went to Fubar to celebrate w/ one of my BFs co-workers for their birthday. Three of us walked up together (2guys, 1 girl,all Black). Doorman and police officer standing at the door. No problem w/ the cop, he was just there, never said a word to us.
Doorman tells my BF that his jeans are too baggy and tells our guy friend that he has "designs" on his jeans. First of all, my BF had one 'hump/bulge' at the bottom of his jeans, over his shoes (where the pants naturally 'break'). I sd to the doorman, "if he rolls/cuffs the jeans, will that be okay". He says 'no'. Our friend had regular jeans (no holes/tears/faded spots) and had stitching on his back pockets. We stood around waiting to let our friends know that we couldn't get in. Two white guys show up, one w/ dreads was wearing "bermuda-style" shorts--he is sagging these shorts with his underwear showing all around his waistline--&& I don't mean the rim of his underwear--I mean his underwear was bulging out of the top of the shorts, "baggy draws" at the top. He gets in no problem. Daps up the doorman even. Other dude w/ him has this big azz logo on his shirt. He gets in w/ no problem either. The doorman himself, kinda hefty dude (fat, not muscle; tall, not wide) was wearing these booty-hugging jeans. I mean, I could see the whole shape of his derriere...(and, I will say, it wasn't a nice/cute 'guy' derriere--he had a bit of a bubble-butt goin on--what can I say, I can recognize a nice butt, && this wasn't one....). ANYWAY.....Now, we show up w/ no sneakers, nice collar shirts and relaxed fit jeans (on the guys anyway) & are denied entry. Dude shows up looking like he forgot his belt at home & couldn't keep his shorts on his waist (mind you, he did have a belt on), and he gets in no problem....
The doorman validated denying us entry by saying "...it says so on our dress code...it's online at ['fubarraleigh' or 'fubarnc' (I don't remember)]". When I get home, I visit the 'fubarnc' website--"website no longer in operation". So, I look up Fubar on FB. "Iam Fubar (Larry Carter)" shows up in my search. I send him a message, nice and to-the-point, nothing vulgar or rude, simply asking "where can I find the dress code b/c the website is down". He never even responds. It's almost been a month probably. Just sad.... It's okay though, b/c the word is [getting] out. I don't support racist establishments (black/brown/yellow/white/green/whatever!) & wouldn't drop a tear to see it shut down. read more