I truly wonder if the 5 star reviews of this organization are written by employees. I give them kudos for attempting to get singles together in this decidedly anti-social city, in a variety of settings, but honestly the concept just doesn't work, especially the speed dating or "table hopping" dating ideas. There are a host of reasons why, and many would turn into sociological diatribes, so I'll hold off on my comments about that.....but on the more logistical side, I can offer a few examples of why the events (at least the speed dating or "table hopping" dating events) don't work:
1. The locations of the events: Usually in DC or Bethesda, which are difficult for the peons stuck in Northern Virginia to get to. How about some events in Northern VA, before traffic in the area becomes 100% gridlocked 24/7? And the locations in DC or Bethesda are same old, same old....Mortons in Georgetown, BlackFinn in DC or Bethesda.
2. Their endless supply of "More Men Needed for ____ Event" emails. This is deceptive. I've been to several of these events where "More Men were Needed" according to their email, and the ratio of men to women was 4:2. There were plenty of men there, and I found it hard to believe that all of them just booked their tickets the day before. I have never seen emails advising that "More Women are Needed," yet there were plenty of events where the number of men far outweighed women. This organization is in business to make money, and any "More Women Needed" e-mail would turn any potential male attendee off ("why would I want to attend a sausage festival? Shit, I can go to Bailey's for that...") and women would stay away ("Fins to the left, fins to the right, and I'm the only bait in this place.")
3. "Too much in too little time." Four minute speed dating just doesn't work. The concept sounds good on paper, but just when you are getting some interesting tidbits from someone of the opposite sex, the whistle is blown and you need to move on. And guys, if you think that woman four seats back will hang around after the event, or will be available to talk to at the end if she does hang around, think again....
4. Wine tastings....really? Since when is Barefoot wine considered to be a fine wine? They get props for trying to come up with interesting ideas, but forget the wine tastings.
The long and short is you can't force dating, especially in this high stress, constant sensory input area we live in. It has to happen the old fashioned way. Go with no expectations (just the expectation to meet a bunch of new people and engage in short, small talk conversations), and you may have a good tiime. read more