Horrible experience. She gives homework and doesn't follow up. She takes sides in couples therapy. And she's generally unprofessional and tells clients all about her own life problems with her children and family by their legal names. I know farrr too much about her children's marital problems. read more

Destiny made us feel very comfortable. She and her assistant Cathy were very professional. We learned a lot about ourselves and each other and look forward to more sessions soon! read more

This counselor has a very self-serving approach in dealing with her clients. I ABSOLUTELY DO NOT RECOMMEND COMING TO THIS PERSON FOR HELP. Keep digging and don't waste your time here. read more

I've been going to Charity for over a year. I have appreciated her caring approach to my emotional needs. She knows how to get to the hard stuff and encourage/cheer you on to healing. read more

A counselor, at best is supposed to help you see where your problems lie, and lead you to see them, so that ultimately YOU may do the work to fix them. They do not hold your hand, baby you, give you false hope. The best counselors give it to you straight, and help you to unravel the why and what of your issue, and then make careful suggestions to help you fix the HOW and WHERE you got there, and you go from here. Charity Danker and Evanescence Counseling where there for me at a period when my wife and I needed guidance. Eventually, we took the tools we received and went upon our way to solve our problems. Some did get solved, some did not. But we continue to work on our issues and are works in progress. As for the nuts and blots of the business: There were times we had to wait on her to see us ( other sessions ran long, family issues) and times she had to wait on us ( traffic, as we drove from Moore to NW OKC to see her). Sometimes she was in the mood to hear us; sometimes we weren't in the mood to hear her. We still did the work, and we didn't have but one minor billing problem when we were there ( in fact, she still owes us two sessions we paid for and never collected on),so we would recommend her as a capable therapist / counselor to help you with guidance to get your issues on track for YOU to successful deal with them. read more

I went to Charity at a most vulnerable time in my marriage. I trusted her so much that I referred my best friend to her as well. After a heated session in which she made a careless, off handed diagnosis about my husband and I, we chose to not return. That day along with her comments about not believing humans were supposed to be monogamous and not believing in "forever" with someone, we walked away. In return, she badmouthed me and disclosed private information to the friend I referred. This was such a hurtful betrayal. Since this incident, I refuse to go to another counselor out of fear of opening myself up to someone again. I think Charity is irresponsible with information and once she forms a personal opinion of someone, she disguises it as a diagnosis. I would caution anyone to really think about it before scheduling an appointment here. read more

I have been coming to Charity for well over a year. It started out as a way to strengthen my relationship with my partners. She has helped us to overcome not only the obstacles that were holding us back in our relationship, but also individually. Charity does a great job of pushing you to talk about hard things but in such a way that you will feel safe. One thing I will say is speak openly and honestly with her as she's not going to let you BS her, but that's what makes her great at what she does. read more