When we were temple shopping years ago, people at Emanuel made us feel welcomed and made sure we were introduced to others at the oneg. I've been a member of and pray at Emanuel for some years (beit t'fillah), and have remained a member because of the many friends we have made (beit knesset) as well as the Jewish learning with the rabbi (beit midrash). We find Emanuel to be sort of funky, with interesting people from a variety of backgrounds and family styles. Emanuel is not unlike other congregations in terms of attendance at services--large attendance at High Holy Days, small attendance on Friday nights and Saturdays, pretty typical of Reform congregations. Another reason we stay is that there seems to be no financial snobbery, a reason we did not stay elsewhere. As to the comments from some of the other reviewers, I find that not only have I not had the same experience, I have found the opposite experience, and I don't have kids in religious school or a ton of money, either.
I can relate membership horror stories about other synagogues, including having a rabbi, when I asked about what committee I could join to help, ask me who I knew there because "if you don't know someone, you can't just join a committee. It depends on who you know." Another example is having people with a car pool near us tell us that we couldn't join their car pool because we had a Volvo but not a Mercedes, like the others. Or being on a committee for a community-wide Yom haShoah observance and having the rabbi of not-your-congregation waltz into a meeting at his own congregation 20 minutes late, announce to us what we will be doing, and walk out, as though we, who were from so many other congregations, were his rather stupid employees and of course wouldn't dare disobey. I don't slam these organizations in print about my experiences, because I understand that these experiences are not those of their supporters; in fact, their members are having a good experience. So if you belong to a particular temple because you have had a good experience there--great! But your experience at Emanuel is certainly not universal. I know people who come from the suburbs to go to Emanuel, so clearly its personality and funkiness is attractive to others. read more