Last September, I found myself sitting alone at my kitchen table, staring at yet another dead-end…read moreconversation on a dating app, wondering if real love was ever going to happen for me. I'm a successful single mom in my 40s -- I've built a good life, but when it came to relationships, I had a long track record of choosing the wrong people for all the wrong reasons. My hope was fading fast, and every disappointment made me feel like the door to real love was closing just a little more. Then I found Michelle at Incredible Love Matchmaking & Coaching -- and from our very first call, I knew this was going to be different. Michelle has a rare gift: she really sees you. She listens deeply, asks the right questions, and somehow uncovers the truth you didn't even know you were holding back from yourself. Working with her felt like having a wise, compassionate guide and a tough-love friend all in one. She genuinely cares -- you can feel how invested she is in helping you grow and find real happiness. She helped me peel back years of old patterns and blind spots. She guided me to see what I truly want in a partner -- and what was standing in my way of finding it. Her coaching style is structured but always flexible -- whether we were rewriting my dating app profile, decoding awkward conversations, preparing for first dates, or figuring out how to gracefully move on, Michelle was there every step of the way. Most of all, she made dating feel lighter, less like something to survive, and more like something to be curious and hopeful about again. After months of trying online, she gently suggested it might be time to put my phone down and simply live my life more openly in the real world. So I did -- and wouldn't you know it, that's when I met someone. This relationship feels so different from anything I've ever known. It feels healthy, real, and deeply connected. For the first time in my life, I feel like I'm with someone who truly sees my worth -- because, thanks to Michelle, I finally see it too. Every day I spend with this person, I feel a quiet hope I never thought I'd feel again -- that I've found the love I've been searching for most of my adult life. And even more, I feel like I finally know how to nurture and protect that love so it grows with me as I grow old. Michelle's gift, insight, and genuine care have changed my life forever. If you're wondering whether working with her is worth it -- it is. It might just be the best gift you ever give yourself.

After a disastrous experience with Pete O'Neal I found Michelle. She was nice and seemed to have…read moregenuine interests in helping others. I would consider her services but still do your homework before choosing anyone.

Christian Trey is by far the best mind body in relationship coach out there. He completely…read moreunderstood my needs once and goals and literally help me find the woman of my dreams. I was skeptical at first, but he assured me that with time and effort comes amazing results and boy was he right! I'm so proud to say that this week I'm shopping for wedding rings because I have found my soulmate thanks to Christian Trey. One call that's all you won't regret it I promise.

I had just gone through a messy break up and had lost a lot of confidence in myself, when a friend…read moreof mine told me about this service. The initial consultation was very professional and relaxed. I felt like my concerns were listened to and effectively addressed in a manner that was both efficient and direct. I was able to learn how to renter the dating scene effectively. I can't express how grateful I am for everything you helped me with and can only say that it was time and money well spent.

I highly recommend Judith Gottesman! I always find it very helpful to speak with Judith for dating…read morecoaching before/after dates. From my first conversation with her I felt comfortable and at ease during our conversations. I could speak openly and honestly about myself, and a potential soul mate match. She has such great insight into her clients, and how to bridge differences. Her passion for her work and clients shines through! -M.B. SF Bay Area

Judith has been wonderful to work with and is a breath of fresh air. She gives great advice, is…read moreempathetic to challenges, and has motivated me to "get back in the game," so to speak, with dating. I'm confident that with Judith's help, I'll be able to find people who could potentially be a good match for me. In the early stages of working with Judith, I was matched with several people, and I'm confident that this will continue. Thank you so much, and Toda Raba to Judith for all her help and compassion!

I had terrible results with Pete O'Neal so I decided to take matters into my own hand. I went to…read morelots of their events and it was ok. The quality of dates was not high or consistent. Buyers beware.

Did an event at Doubletree Hotel on a Monday. Tough to find a parking spot nearby but I am fine…read morewalking 1/2 mile. Seemed like it should have been good as 11 ladies / 11 men. Observed four attractive ladies come in together as friends (red flag as I have never seen 4 female friends all without a boyfriend / fiancé / husband). Event ran mostly smooth even though there were a few times it got very noisy and hard to hear. During the 5 minutes greets, one of the group of four answered me about her last vacation (a month ago) with her boyfriend (not ex, not former, pure boyfriend response). That plus a couple others seeming disinteresting in trying to see if we were a match confirmed what I feared that maybe ladies are planted to make event look good. Maybe I am wrong, but go at your own risk.. I doubt I will (even though my next event is 1/2 off)

It's been by experience over the past six or seven months with Pete, that he is a genuine authentic…read moreperson. He consistently cares about your personal growth, and overall success.His approach is always rooted in compassion , consistency and a true commitment in helping you succeed. If you're looking for a dating coach. Or a community of men who sharpen your sword, for personal growth, lifestyle, and dating I would highly recommend working with Pete! Chad M.

I hired Pete O'Neal as a dating coach, and it turned out to be one of the most disappointing…read moreinvestments I've ever made. Our initial video call took place on February 5, 2025. At the end of the call, I signed up for 3 months of coaching at a price of $3,500. He immediately pushed me to sign up for a 6-month package instead -- despite never having worked together. That was the first red flag: he was more interested in maximizing his earnings than assessing whether we were a good match. Throughout the program, his coaching approach was one-size-fits-all and rigid. Instead of tailoring strategies to my personality and preferences, Pete insisted on generic formulas -- like going to Latin dance classes multiple times per week. I tried this, but quickly found the loud nightclub-style atmosphere overwhelming and counterproductive. When I voiced my discomfort, his response was to "just shout if you have to" and "talk to guys nearby to stay social." He even recommended I go on specific days because another client of his did. It was bizarre. Expecting someone to thrive in high-stimulation environments they find draining is like giving every patient the same pair of glasses and calling it optometry. It's lazy and negligent -- especially at this price point. I came to Pete hoping to improve my conversational skills in dating. Instead, I got platitudes like "go into Headquarters," his vague buzzword for discussing "fun" topics -- like the beach. He never took the time to understand what I was actually looking for: deeper, more meaningful interactions with women of substance. His coaching seemed geared toward chasing superficial encounters, not building authentic connections. His advice around fitness was equally rigid and tone-deaf. While encouraging exercise is reasonable, he pushed me to join a Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu gym, despite my complete lack of interest. When I suggested other forms of physical activity I actually enjoyed, he dismissed them and insisted that BJJ was the best option -- claiming it burns 1,000 calories per workout, as if that alone made it the only valid path. His unwillingness to adapt his recommendations to my preferences made the entire process feel forced and unsustainable. Another letdown was the professional photo shoot that was supposed to help with my online dating profile. After the shoot, I was suddenly asked -- in front of the photographer -- to Venmo him an $80 "tip" because he "drove a long way." This was never disclosed beforehand, and the social pressure left me little choice but to pay. The photos themselves were underwhelming: all staged, with no variety or social context. Needless to say, they didn't improve my results. When I brought up that I wasn't getting many matches -- even after the professional photo shoot -- he didn't consider that the photos themselves might be subpar. Instead, he blamed my physical appearance and, at one point, rhetorically asked, "Do you think hot girls -- like 9s or 10s -- want to fuck you?" He framed it as "real talk," but it came off as unnecessary, insulting, and completely unhelpful. Rather than offering constructive feedback, he resorted to shame-based tactics that left me feeling worse, not better. Midway through the program, I asked Pete if we could pause due to a medical issue. He agreed. But when it became clear I wouldn't be able to continue, I requested a prorated refund -- which was clearly outlined as an option in the signed agreement. Pete refused. I filed a dispute with American Express, and while they initially refunded me, they reversed the decision after Pete responded with no new information. I reopened the case and the same thing happened. AmEx's handling of this was disgraceful, but that's a separate issue. The real issue is Pete's character. He showed no regard for the agreement, no empathy for my health, and no integrity in how he runs his business. He takes advantage of people who are vulnerable, masking it with charm and faux confidence. He is not someone you can trust -- with your money or your emotional well-being. Bottom line: Do not hire Pete O'Neal. If you're serious about improving your dating life, look elsewhere -- preferably to someone who listens, adapts, and treats you with basic decency.

I reached out to April and had some conversations with her about what I was looking for, and the…read moreterrible issues that I had with my previous dating coach Pete O'Neal. She seemed very professional and insightful with her explanations on why my previous coach was great at getting people in his program yet without true fruition in the end. However, I felt their services were just not practical overall and decided to go elsewhere.

Great company, and I really wanted to love the brand new (2024) owner April Linden. The previous…read moreowner Karalee Austin was fabulous. I have given April (new owner) every chance, but she does not answer emails, and she's impersonal (and borderline rude) to customers when checking in to a dance or speed dating event. There are problems with the events themselves, for example the dances are 90% women. (I'm a woman wanting to meet men) And both speed dating events I attended were run poorly, too short, and lacked men. Really tried to love the new owner. Hoping she will eventually come around. Maybe after six months I'll give this company another try.

In seeking a placement, I worked with Miaya and Dara. Miaya was extremely friendly, helpful, and…read moreencouraging during my intake process. Because I was applying to a unique placement, Dara took over my case and Dara is the absolute best. She is so caring and committed to her clients. She was extremely responsive and reassuring. Most of all I appreciated her realness! So much staffing and job application can feel so impersonal, but working with Dara made the process feel so much more human. Dara always told me exactly what she was thinking, never keeping me in the dark or using euphemistic corporate lingo. Would highly recommend working with Seaside to find a placement!

Don't bother reaching out to this company if you actually need help finding employment. I had sent…read moremy résumé over to somebody named Jessica and she pretty much told me that she couldn't help me and "best of luck." I replied and explained to her why I'm qualified to work as a nanny and the conversation just fell off and she never got back in touch with me. It was clearly obvious that she had no interest in helping me. I wouldn't bother reaching out to this company as they're obviously not well-equipped to help nor do they care.