I thought that during my search for a birth doula, I wasn't going to find the perfect person to support me during my birth. Interview after interview and I was not vibing with any of the women I had met, and I was disappointed and beginning to get ready to settle and give up. I searched far and wide and started searching on Yelp for doulas in OC. My dream was to birth in a birth center but it wasn't in the cards for us. If I was going to have a better birth experience in a hospital, I knew the right doula was a must. Insert Allison.
Upon meeting Allison, her warmth and confidence were an instant comfort to me. Allison was not only knowledgeable, but she was visibly passionate about birth. I was very impressed with her immediately and it was almost like love at first sight. Had we finally found The One? The perfect doula for our family?! Was our search finally over?
When looking for the right doula, being on the same page and vibing with one another is so important. This is one of the most powerful and vulnerable times in a mother's life and the right doula can help make the birth experience so much more successful and less stressful. I had delivered my first child traumatically by cesarean and my plan was to deliver naturally this time. I needed someone that I knew would have my back and help me keep my eye on the prize.
Allison asked me about my birth plan, what my first delivery was like, what my goals were for this birth, and really dove in to get a snapshot of what I needed from a doula to make sure that we would work well together. The conversation we had during our interview flowed effortlessly and to be honest by the end of our meeting I was as ready to hire her on the spot. I wanted to discuss the options with my husband, so I took her portfolio and told her we would be in touch. She messaged me later that day to follow up and after talking to my husband we knew she was the perfect fit for us! It was a match! Allison agreed to work with us and we were so lucky because Allison is worth her weight in gold.
We met with Allison once more before the big day. I text her often though with many questions and she was very quick to respond and support me with her knowledge with spinning baby moves, advice for what oils to use for my nausea or migraines, what I could take to prepare my cervix for birth, etc. I also followed Allison on social media which was not only great for gaining more birth knowledge, but also to get to know her better so that I could be as comfortable as possible when it came to be time to birth.
I kept in touch with her and even though I was due right around Thanksgiving, Allison was always checking in, making herself available, and very quick to respond to me. We had a few bouts of false labor, but when go time finally came, she helped talk me through my different stages of labor and gave me advice on when to stay home/go to the hospital. Our goal was a vbac, so most of my laboring was to be done at home. Went to the hospital thinking I was in active labor to find out that the party had just started and we decided it was best for me to go home and come back.
After about five more hours of strong labor, I went back to the hospital at 7am and was in active labor. Allison met us at the hospital shortly after. She helped me stick to my birth plan where I could and supported me when plans had to be adjusted. She helped me find comfort with acupressure when there was no relief to be found in any position I tried. She gave me pep talk, after pep talk, after pep talk when I started to lose steam and was about to give up. She also spoke on behalf of my baby and told me to dig deep because my baby was getting tired too and that I needed to get it together (in a supportive/coaching way-but with no BS which I appreciated because I don't like sugar-coating or coddling). After about an hour of pushing and nearly giving up-my baby and I finally did it 15 hours after checking in to the hospital. We couldn't have gotten our VBAC without her!
Allison checked in on us often after delivery and sent us a ton of pictures which we really appreciated. She came over to our home for a postpartum visit to check on all of us which was amazing. I am so glad to have crossed paths with her and am glad to say that Allison is considered family to us for what she helped us achieve. She is one strong mama and I know her career as a doula will to continue to flourish because of how genuinely amazing she is at it! All of the nurses and midwives that met her during my birth had asked me later for her business cards and information so that they could refer her to their patients. They all were very impressed with her!
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