First time ever experiencing a gentlemans club last night and Blair made it perfect! , will definitely be back !

Definitely worth a visit. Staff has always been super friendly (not just the dancers), the drinks are good, and it's reasonably priced for a club. I've always had a good time going here, and am planning on coming back soon. read more

I love this place. The remodel has been great and the girls apparently got remodeled too, lol. I'm straight but if debauchery is gonna go down, why not have it in a good atmosphere and around good people. My dog loves this place and the drinks are of a fair price. No food but good pours and friendly staff. Nuff said, just go. read more

Desert Flame Gentlemen's Club - I'm not supposed to have her up there - Strip Clubs Near Me - Mesa, Arizona

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Horrible bartender that is mean to you if you aren't a townie. First time she screwed up my drink and overcharged. Second time she wouldnt serve me a second shot until more time had passed. 20-some years managing/frequenting bars and I've never been put on a timer before. I think she's on meth maybe. read more

This would be a really great spot to start a gentleman's club. You know , the ones where girls ACTUALLY danced. The girls during the day , sit at the bar and do absolutely nothing except talk to whichever regular is there. Rarely is there EVER a girl on stage. The girls at night aren't much different. Have offered to buy drinks and the reply is I'll be right back. When you finally get up to leave they're sitting in the bar area looking at their phones. Some real management would do wonders. Not to be outdone the day bartender ( Kylee) isn't much better. read more

This is the cheers of strip clubs. I walk in and felt welcomed. The crowd was amazing. There are good looking girls. Courteous staff and dancers. No pressure from the staff. Dude! The beers were 5 bucks. This is awesome on a Saturday night at a strip club. I was expecting the worse, but I found a gem in the desert. I'm from Vegas and some clubs could learn from the staff here. Anyways it was a pleasure to be here. Will prob come more when I visit. Place is clean too. Bartenders are super sweet: servers are amazing checked on my beer all night. Never had an empty beer. Security was nice, respectful. read more

Came here with my wife and 2 female friends. Service was great, dancers were nice and pretty. Drinks were fairly priced as well.

Wasn't a big fan of this place. Only 3 girls on stage and every other girl was either with someone else all night or on the couches on their phone. It's pretty boring and kills the vibe of a strip club I want a dance not sit for a hour, but the service I got was good tho. The staff was cool which was a plus. I did eventually get a dance from India so thank you India you're cute AF :) read more

It's a strip club in AJ... it's as good as it sounds. If you're idea of a good club is blonde barbie dolls parading around like Show Poodles, this isn't your kind of place. The girls may not be 10's, but they aren't stuck - up idiots either. Down to earth, fun chicks to party with. Do yourself a favor and check this place out. It's quite a scene. read more

I went here on Friday night with a friend. They let vets in free which was a plus, but we walked in and I went to the bar to order a beer and the bartender was having some deep conversation with a client and honestly took 4 min to pour two draft beers.... The entire bar had THREE customers including the two of us. After a long wait for our beer we went into the the entertainment area and sat down. I think there was only three dancers there on a Friday night which I thought that was unusual. Then after two dancers did their "set" they needed to take a break where there was a 10 min time period where the stage was empty. When the next dancer came to the stage she was a plus size girl (just not my thing) and the DJ said "remember gents the dancers don't get paid from the club, they only make money from tips". Desert Flame is a sorry excuse for a strip club for any third world country and I can't wait until they close their doors and it becomes another used car dealership. I wouldn't go back if they offered free VIP dances for an entire weekend with their best dancers. I'm disappointed that I spent $5 on a beer and couldn't drink more than 1/2 before needing to leave. read more

Bartender was pretty rude and the staff wasn't too friendly on a Saturday evening. Don't come here if you're looking for a good time. It seems regulars take priority. read more

Cover is a thing, but about the only down side. Nice folks Laid back environment. Manager and staff are dope. Had a good time. Not the best, but so much closer to the best than the worst in my travels. Drinks are cheap, service was great, staff was awesome. read more

This a a great beginner club with some diamonds in the rough. The owners are friendly and all the dancers. I will be back for sure! Drink prices are also reasonable. read more

Terrible place. Super sketchy. Was in for the first and last time last week. They take your IDs when you come in an photo copy them. Not sure if illegal or not but super sketchy. read more

Great spot if you're out in East Mesa also if we are getting to brass tax they have very fine looking women also with a sweet attitude to compliment. Would definitely recommend to anyone and the bar is awesome read more

Pleasantly surprised! My wife and I usually head to Scottsdale to support the local girls but we have always wanted something closer to home. This place is roomy and has a big dance floor with upgraded bar top and new felt that provides a nice barrier between the dancers and the customer. I also heard they are installing 3 new poles so maybe that means more than one dancer at a time woot woot? Drinks are very well priced and the keeps are super friendly. We go early 7pm - 10pm so we haven't seen it in full motion quite yet but man was it comfy and fun. Shout out to the girls for treating us perfectly we will definitely be back. When the kids are away mom and dad take time to play! read more

first review for this god like establishment?!?!?! Been here multiple times to realize my life is not THAT bad. all the girls are absolutely nasty, missing teeth, bullet wounds, hairy, old and over weight.....MY KIND OF BABES! go here to lift your self esteem. Drinks are of normal price and the dances aren't expensive (although they should be paying us to look at them naked). a must go at least once in your life. bring friends so they will back all the terrible stories you will tell the next day. read more

This place was pretty average. The drinks were definitely watered down as another user mentioned. The strippers were average. It's exactly what you would expect from a strip club in AJ. If I was in AJ I probably would go again. But... I would stick to beer or the shots read more

First time going to the Desert Flame and I was pleasantly surprised. Went on a Saturday night and there was a good lineup of ladies. Half of them weren't bad at all. I got some drinks sat front and center at the stage and had a couple of lap dances and was entertained all night. I'll be back again soon. read more

If I could give no stars, I would! The girls were great but the service at the bar sucks as well as the staff. They made rude comments and had attitude. They do not know how to treat customers!!! They need to be schooled on customer service skills. I wanted to spend more money. I just wanted to leave. I was appalled! read more

I wasn't impressed. The bar tender wasn't friendly , in fact I would say rude. 1 dancer in the building, and she seamed she didn't want to be there read more

East Mesa Boarder Trash AJ so if your from PHX dont think its popping like ESSEX or HIGH LIter its good for were its at thats about it

Not trying to sound like a fuckin creep but I have been here multiple times in my existence. For starters, they photocopy your ID and credit card which is super weird and doesn't really seem to be legal but, the booze is cheap as hell which of course i could get down with. If you're a total creep loser like myself, then you go to strip clubs in the afternoon. There are usually 1-2 girls drunk as hell giving a below than average attempt at dancing. This is totally fine with me. I would rather gulp down some bud lights and watch infomercials on the TVs about non stick pans. I actually bought one of those pans. I should do a review for the god damn pan. GET A NON STICK PAN! THEY ARE AMAZING! read more

I can't tell you how many times I have been in here over the years. I love it there. The girls are always so friendly, and between you me and the lamp post, they tell me I keep getting "bigger" each time I go in there. read more

This place over pours and over serves alcohol. I feel like it's a ploy they use to get you to open your wallet. One that will land them in a serious lawsuit. One recent incident a stripper charged my father in law $60 for talking to him. Yes Talking! He was so drunk that he didn't even realize he was being screwed. Another incident occurred where they over served my husband regardless of me explaining he was cut off. They served him 8 shots of Jaeger and 4 beers, and he was also clearly drunk upon arrival. Then, a stripper was trying to get him to go to a VIP room when he could Harley talk or walk he was so intoxicated. Luckily I had his wallet though. On this same night my brother in law was attacked (choked) by a stripper because she thought his phone was hers. Once proven that it was not hers she thought a free lap dance would make up for it. This place is very poorly ran. read more

Went here March 13, 2015. The club is kinda small. 1 stage. I saw that there were about 10 dancers.2 of the girls were pretty hot.Most not so much, some were quite big and older. They were friendly for the most part.The problem is the black haired waitress in the miniskirt.$13 for 2 drinks. .I gave her a $20 and she nodded like she would be right back with my change. I didn't see her again.I had to hunt her down after watching her go back and forth thru the room. She gave me my change after I saw her at the bar without even a sorry. I would watch your money very carefully at this place. read more

BEST DATING SIMULATOR EVER!!! I met a pretty brunette last night who had made some significantly bad life choices, and she seemed to be way into me, but after a few drinks I started to get the impression that she was only in it for the money. Turns out I was right, and she really wasn't even pretty under normal lighting either. The whole thing felt like a scam, really. read more

Place has come along way since the desert shame days! This was my first club at 21 and was nothing impressive. Visited recently. The staff including security, bartenders, and dancers really stepped it up. Drink prices are fair. Will be back for sure!!! read more

This club has a lot of potential if management would be less restrictive. They'll let you buy a lady a drink but she has to go to the back room to drink it. And, management decides if she can have one or not. Most times the girls hang in the back room. They do a good job weeding out the naughty girls. Last count there were 30 cameras, and they are everywhere. The girls there are stunningly beautiful and very friendly. If you don't tip, you will be ignored. Can you blame them? They're trying to make ends meet. Be good to the ladies and help them out. Normally when they're on stage a dollar a song is okay. They have $10 dances at the tables and $20 dances on the sofas. If you're looking for something extra, go somewhere else. This is a great place to relax, listen to their awesome sound system and look at the pretty girls. Everyone there is great! Including the bartenders, bouncers and managers. read more

I went to the Desert Flame for the first time last night , I was always told it was a shithole.To my surprise it wasn't even close to that the fellow working the door was great even came and check on me a couple times to see how my night was going.I took $500.00 with me and plan on spending it all on booze and strippters my birthday June 26 so what a great way to start your birthday week.The strippters were all very pretty and the waitress working the floor was beautiful as well.The drawbacks to this club is Im a draft beer drinker and there beer was warm so I had to settle for bottle beer double the price.Once again the strippters were all good looking but this was the first strip club I have ever been in where they didn't try to work you for couch dances and private dances.When they get done dancing on the stage they all went and hang out at the bar .I only had one girl ask me if I wanted a private dance and I was there 2 hours.I decide to move the party down the road I sat at the bar waiting for my Lyft .The doorman came up to this very pretty dancer who when she wasn't dancing hung out with her man and his buddy at the bar.He told her that a customer wanna a private dance with her and it was almost like the doorman was asking for permission.I will definitely go back but it will safe to say I wont bring $500.00 with me and hopefully they will have the draft beer fix. read more

Went to have a good time and after we grabbed a drink at the bar we went into the dance room where loud music was playing but no girls were dancing. Sat there for 30 mins to finish our drinks and nothing happened. When we were leaving we asked if there were dancing breaks or nights that there aren't any dancers and the bartender, bouncer and 2 other girls just started at us and smiled at each other. Then the bartender said that no dancers showed up. I can understand there not being any dancers.. Things happen.. But why would you let customers just go sit in a room, knowing what they are there for, and just not say anything. So incredibly rude. Won't be back. read more

do not go here, tou will be ripped off on drinks, the game is they will say, you did not give me 20.00, and short change you, they wait until you have a few drinks, and then start short changing you, the bartenter is a skink!!! read more

Best strip club to go and relax, watch sports center and grab a beer. Women aren't also the best but everyone there in generally nice and there isn't much drama. My kind of strip joint. read more

This place has really gone downhill over the past year or so and wasn't anything to write home about before that. What the other user said about them hiring every girl who applies appears to be true, and the staff is usually too busy talking to each other to be bothered to help the customers. They used to have some pretty hot girls there and it was a cool place to see some skin but lately all I see is busted up girls who think they are the hottest thing ever. The last few times I've been there have just been awful. I'll make the drive and go to Sonny's in Chandler, Christie's or Elite in Tempe, or really pretty much any of the clubs west of this dirt bucket. read more