You have probably stumbled upon Dean in a similar fashion we did and are trying to make (what we felt was) one of the most important decisions about your big day. My wife and I wanted our wedding to be intimate and unique, not a traditional "Do you take..." sort of wedding that seems to be the cookie-cutter recipe for weddings. We originally had a friend lined up to perform the ceremony, but when those plans fell through we weren't sure if his replacement would be as personal and provide a unique experience that we were looking for. Dean was absolutely more than a replacement. In fact, looking back on that special day, we both don't know if our friend could have done as nice as a job as what Dean had done and will always remember Dean as part of what made our day so special.
One of our major concerns was the difference in religious backgrounds our families came from. We didn't want a super religious wedding, yet we did want some important remnants included from each religion. That was important for both of us as well as we knew it would be for several of our wedding guests. Dean did a great job of listening to the items we felt were important to bring out as well as making sure to avoid certain aspects that we felt could stress some conflicting beliefs between the two faiths.
Something that neither of us expected was that Dean would be taking a reasonable amount of time to get to know each of us as well as "our story". He was getting to know each of us as a person, as well as how we worked together and what made our love story different from anyone else. Words can't do justice to the personalization and uniqueness your wedding day will have with Dean sharing your story to your family and friends. We had several family members saying, "I didn't know that you two..." in regards to learning something new about the two of us and our journey together leading up to that special day. Another comment we heard a lot was, "Who was the pastor? I thought that was one of the nicest weddings I've been to in a very long time."
We can't say enough great things about Dean. If you are looking for someone who will create a certain ambiance or you need parts of the wedding molded into what you feel is important, Dean is the perfect person for your day. We didn't feel that this was a job to Dean, but more of a passion of his. You will see this passion in your ceremony and will have memories of an amazing ceremony, we are sure of this. What impressed us equally about his role in our ceremony was the integrity he has as a person. He is sincere, genuine, honest, and a very caring and loving man. You can tell when a person has these qualities, and Dean showed these qualities from the beginning through the end.
When we look back at our wedding day and think of what we were most happy with, two things come to mind: We had an amazing pastor/officiant and the flowers were amazing. There are a lot of things to worry about with that special day approaching. If you are lucky enough to be able to have Dean be a special part of that day, then rest assured, you will have no worries about that part of your wedding.
Dean, we can't possibly thank you enough for how special and unique you made our wedding day. Thank you.
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