Disappointing and Traumatic Experience!!…read more
I had high hopes for a fun night out at Barlow Bar with my two friends (aged 49-65), and at first, everything was great. The atmosphere was vibrant, with happy people dancing, a good DJ, and lively music. The bar didn't offer table service, so we had to order our drinks at the bar, but the prices were reasonable.
However, the night took a shocking and traumatic turn. In the middle of our evening, a security guard suddenly approached us at our table and asked me to grab my jacket and step outside. He then told my two friends to collect their belongings and leave as well--without giving any explanation. Once outside, he claimed that the owner had seen the "exit emergency door" open for a few minutes and blamed one of my friends for it.
Yes, my friend had opened the door once, but only briefly for fresh air because it was extremely hot inside. However, we were not the only ones, other Dutch students had also opened the door throughout the night. Instead of addressing this issue with everyone, the security guard singled us out and removed us from the bar.
Instead of handling the situation professionally, the owner never bothered to check the facts or even speak to us to ask if we are okay!!? He simply made a decision from afar and had us removed like criminals. No discussion, no fairness, no respect. Meanwhile, our other friends were still inside, completely unaware of what had just happened. If they have security cameras, they should check them--because I have never touched that door.
This was a terrible and humiliating experience. We were unfairly targeted and treated with complete disregard. I will never return to Barlow Bar. Next time, we'll stick to Cloos, Mirell, and Margo, where the owners and staff treat their guests with kindness and respect.