I am going to start off with the positives of my first experience at Crossover Church. The positives were as follows: Great music, singer had a beautiful voice, loved how kids and adults were involved in the show, the music lifts the spirit and mood. I liked how when you first walk in at the beginning, the upbeat, spiritual music is playing, it sets a positive and spiritual tone for the rest of the service. The sermon, I thought was fantastic overall by Pastor Chris Harris. I am a 41 year old white female and this experience is not what am I used to as I was raised in a traditional white methodist church, so the yelling and the evangelism was a little weird for me, but that is how they do it in this type of church/culture. I liked how they provide you with a paper to fill in the blanks and take notes on the sermon/presentation. I liked how Pastor Harris read the scripture that he was teaching and then related it to issues we are facing today.
Negatives from this experience: unfortunately, I do have some negatives. The first thing I noticed is that there is not a cross in the main cathedral area. I was raised in a traditional Methodist Church, so again, not seeing a cross up front was a bit weird for me. I think they need to put a cross in the background on the stage. Secondly, I didn't think I really received a very warm welcome being someone there for the 1st time, people did say hello but also it needs to be taken into consideration this is a big congregation and the service had already started. The usher lady was very warm and friendly. I did feel a bit out-of-place there as I stated before, I am a 41 year old white female and most of the congregation are young black and hispanic people in their 20's and 30's. Although, I did see some white ladies there my age but maybe like 3? Ok, the biggest negative for me from my experience at this church is as follows: I went to this church because I am feeling broken and going through one of hte hardest times in my life right now. At the end of the service, the 2 lead Pastors of the church were in the lobby talking with people. I basically felt like I was waiting in line to talk to "Urban D" Tommy the lead pastor who didn't really even acknowledge me or look my way and say, I'll be with you in a minute knowing I was waiting to speak with him, which kind of gave me a negative feeling. (there was like another couple standing there talking w him). I was going to ask him if the pastors there provide counseling and how could I get counseling and prayer or schedule appointment as I really needed to speak with a pastor about my current problems and receive prayer. Then the 2nd past in charge who gave sermon, Mr. Harris walks up and I asked him if they provide counseling and how could I schedule an appt. with one of them. He then told me that they refer people out to A Tampa Christian Counseling Center for counseling. This shocked and offended me a little bit. I mean really? You don't have time to counsel your people or don't "want" to take the time so you refer them to a place where they have to pay for it and probably can't afford it. I thought this is what Pastors are supposed to do, one of their main job functions to provide counseling?? He stated something about doing it over the phone, but I also thought that was weird. That left a bad taste in mouth and made me feel like they are too overwhelmed and didn't have time for me to pray and counsel me. Not a good feeling for someone to have on their first time to a church. The other church I went too after the service, the Pastor and his wife came up to me, made me feel welcome and this pastor told me to call him if I needed "FREE" Christian counseling and prayer and he would meet with me during the week. That is how it should be. This church was Belmont Baptist Church. So I was searching for a new church and Belmont Baptist Church is the church I will choose because of previously mentioned reason.
This church is great for the young, 'Urban" community. Older, conservative white people who have been raised in a traditional Protestant church probably will not like this church. read more