I had a pretty bad experience here. I wanted to talk to a counsellor about hormones and pms and depression and if there were ways to help alleviate emotions. I'll try anything once, and I figured that it couldn't hurt.
The woman that I saw became fixated on my childhood, and when I tried to sway her back to talking about hormones she refused to talk about anything except my childhood! She told me that because of the generation I am from, my parents most likely didn't love me. She told me to (no joke) find a picture of me as a child, put the picture on the fridge and stare at it for maybe 30 min to an hour a day and really love that child. I said that's not going to happen, so what can you tell me about hormones and pms? Then she said that I was not a good fit for her, and she couldn't help me.
#1, if you don't know anything about the topic I am asking (which you should if you have a degree) why not say that you would do some research and get back to me about it?
#2, if a client doesn't want to talk about something, why press the issue? It just makes them feel uncomfortable and since you are a stranger- it's hard to open up to someone you just met.
#3, pulling the "I don't think this is a good fit" card is a cop-out. It shows that you are not flexible, versatile or adaptable. It shows that you desire to fulfill your own agenda instead of trying to challenge yourself.
If I ever go back to see a counsellor, I hope to choose a non-religious man who shoots straight and is direct and honest. read more