In his excellent article, "Oh come, come, headmaster private schools are pretend charities?" (Sunday Times, 20.01.08), Simon Jenkins argues against private schools registering themselves as charities. He has a point.
In recent years our family has suffered illness, job loss, disability and even homelessness. We are now in social housing. Last year - choosing our daughters high school, we attended open day at Birkenhead School. A wonderful school & Best of all, they were a charity. If a gifted child could benefit from attending Birkenhead, their bursary scheme would do it. A big ask yes, but we saw a lifeline & held on tight, finding the £50 entrance test fee.
The school has its own primary to feed the senior school & rumour had just 6 external places. Our clever girl was offered one of them. What joy! Even hearing our situation, they wanted our girl. We submitted bursary application and waited... How we waited. We sent off e-mails, but no reply until... Welcome evening arrived. We emailed should we come? Now a response "best not" Funding was still not secured, anyway, we could easily be "brought up to speed." I think then I saw the lie, though we still hoped.
We had not requested the 100% bursary they claim is available. We did not expect a freebie & we wanted to show the school we would increase our contribution as & when we could. We also clung to knowledge that the schools own head had benefited from the grants available in his day.
In July, when our girl was due to start in September, we learnt the fund could not acquiesce to our request for support. Apparently, most fee requests are low & the school will happily secure the saving that the average haggler wants? Personally, I found it all so distasteful that it still leaves a bitterness no medicine, regardless how sweet, can relieve. Beati Mundo Corde? Oh come, come,headmaster... read more