A recent decision to pursue help with sexual addiction issues brought me to Bellwood for an intake and assessment. Based on the limited interactions I had with their staff and facility, I would go no further in seeking their assistance. The phone assessment was brusque, invasive and immediate, asking intrusive questions for their purposes with no concern that I may feel comfortable discussing my issues with a stranger over the the phone. When I did arrive for the assessment, I was asked to answer a variety of yes and no queries that seem to arrive at the same conclusion - I required their $23000 residential stay. I was not given the option for outpatient, or asked what would work best for me. This was their recommendation. I had repeatedly told them what I needed and was looking for, but this was seemingly disregarded.
Understanding the mental health system, and supports, as I have been in residential settings before, I do appreciate the need to collect information; however, yes or no questionnaires tend to skew results and turn people from complex individuals to a numbered result. I felt that the intake worker, an older gentleman, was insensitive at best ("your results don't need to be scored as I can see clearly you have a problem" is not a very kind statement for a professional to make, nor was it necessary).
In addition, I kept being referred to as homosexual. In the year 2017, it boggles my mind that I am given three options for identity - heterosexual, bisexual or homosexual. No opportunity to self-label. And to refer to me throughout as homosexual was clinical and offensive. I wouldn't expect a facility that was privately run to use language from the medical texts of the 50's and 60's.
The intake worker also could not address any of my questions regarding LGBTQ sensitivity in the programming. He referred me to a counsellor who he said would call, and as of yet, has not (over a week wait, when he said they'd call the Tuesday following my Saturday intake). Unacceptable. If I were truly in crisis, I would be spinning from the wait. No private facility should drop the ball in this manner. I would expect delays in the underfunded public system.
When facilities, private or public, stop using long form, yes or no questionnaires that dehumanize subjects, and when they open up the dialogue and ask "what would help you best" versus what works best for them, we may see improvements in patient outcomes. Bellwood certainly needs to take a look at how they assess and intake their potential clients, and work on LGBTQ sensitivity. I would never trust my mental health to a patronizing and backwards institution such as this. If you are LGBTQ, I strongly urge you to look elsewhere for care, where the opportunity for mental health partnerships exist, and where they understand the diverse and unique needs of our community. read more