I don't know how this attorney, Ms. Z., got these great reviews, but my experience with her was anything but good. I am finally pulling my life together, and it's time to deal with this. I am not someone who finds it easy to stand up for myself, so I never confronted her about her lack of concern for my future wellbeing. I wish I would have. Everyone should know that she does as LITTLE as possible for her "client." I hired her in 2017 when I was 59 years old needing to file for a divorce after 34 years of marriage. I should have been much more careful in selecting an attorney to trust with my future. I was devastated that my marriage had come to needing to file for a divorce, and I was not in a strong state of mind. That is why I told her what to expect from my X to be spouse, and, specifically, I needed to know she was not going to fall for his mastered people charming ways. He is a salesman, and a damn good one. She assured me that I had nothing to worry about, and that she would look out for me and my best interest, as I was her "client." Btw, I am the one who payed her good money to protect my future, not my X. (p.s. My X and I have remained very close to this day. I am thankful that he is still In my life and there for me.) Ms. Z. said she would not be fooled by my husbands, charming, manipulative ways. She explained how she had been married and divorced A man much like my husband and would not fall for anything. I needed her to make sure she looked out for my future because, at the time, I couldn't do it myself. I had given up my life, my choices, so he could have his and build a nice life for us. Me and the kids moved around so he could have his military career. Every time we got moved to different states, Abt every 2.5/3 yrs, we were the ones who had to start over again and again. The kids had it rough being dropped in different schools every time. He had a great resume, but I had to take whatever job I could be because my resume was "choppy" and "I moved around a lot." One of my favorites was cleaning the men's latrines at night. I won't even go into what I had to clean off walls etc. He always had a pre-made support system in the military, but we always had to start over, and I mean start over. I finally gave up on trying to get through nursing school. I had to reapply, restart and redo classes with every move, and I just finally was too overwhelmed and disillusioned. Anyway, add to this that my X pretty much had his own life going, and it was one great time. The kids and I were left out of it, like we didn't exist. Finally, he retired, and since he had a great resume and many years of great training as a salesman, he was set to have a great well paying 2nd career. Again, I was left out of his life, just married to him. I don't need to go into details, but he was not nice. All I asked of Ms. Z, MY Attorney, was to request temp spousal maintenance until the final amount was decided, and make sure I got to keep my medical and dental benefits since I earned them. The rest was negotiable. She didn't do either. I even put in calls to her assistant (or para legal) to remind her because she hadn't even attempted to request temporary sp. maintenance. Before the signing of the docs, she should have set up a meeting with me to make sure I wasn't getting suckered, but nope. Her job was simple, to make sure her client, me, was ok and everything explained and gone over. As I said, I was in no shape to look out for myself at the time. I couldn't even think straight. As far as I know, she did not even go over his financial disclosures, or she would have found out some very important things were left out. Let's just say, that he is pretty well set, and I am not. At the signing, I couldn't even read the documents because I was under such duress, upset, crying, and my eyes were too blurry to see. So, here is the real kicker: MY Attorney, Ms. Z., Leans forward on the desk, and very sweetly and concerning, asks my now X, XXXXX, are you going to be ok to make XXXXX her 1st pmt sometime in November?? WTH! She was concerned about him? I got completely screwed, no temporary spousal, no medical, no dental, and much much more, believe me. I did end up ok, and I say that because I know of stories where some people get really screwed much worse. I want to be thankful for what I did end up with, but it should have been much more fair. In 7 years, at 69 years of age, I'll be in trouble. I wish I could sue. read more