When I discovered Amber, I was already in the middle of a deep transformational journey. I had recently sold a business, retired, and divorced, ending an 18-year marriage (my second). I was extremely frustrated by the fact that both of my marriages had evolved into sexless relationships, despite my best efforts to the contrary. I knew that part of the answer lay in my own patterns and defenses, and that those came out of a lot of deep childhood trauma. While I had already spent quite a lot of time working on those things through traditional therapy, I also had a strong sense of the inherited generational traumas underlying it all, which were not being addressed. Amber's unique background allows her to look at a client's situation through so many different lenses, and address the issues directly and concretely, through somatic work, through family constellation work, through a variety of tools.
I knew I already had some skills in the bedroom, but I was yearning to be more open emotionally, to have better relationship skills, to be more present with my partner. I was yearning to understand and heal my relationship with the feminine, both in myself as well as with my partner. And, as the genealogist in my family, I was fascinated by the possibility that I could learn to heal the inherited generational traumas that I knew were at work. Her initial questions for me were very helpful in helping me see myself differently as a man. To have this sensual poised feminine persona REALLY ASK ME about myself was inspiring. I will say that her essence, how she inhabits the non-shaming, non-judgmental, loving, sexually empowered Divine Feminine, gives those who work with her access to spiritual life force energies that they rarely encounter, and certainly almost never encounter in professional life. Amber has a very deep holistic view of sex and spirituality that can help you overcome the very limiting and shame-filled view of sex that we are taught. She also has a large toolbox of practical skills for moving energy, such as following your breath, being in your body, and just being aware of the present and getting out of your head, that is ever so helpful.
In the past year, I have had to best sex of my life, and I am currently involved with a beautiful, powerful woman in what feels like the first equal partnership of my life, which is truly lovely. I feel that my ability to be fully present with my partner, to provide a sense of safety that allows her to open, and my intuitive understanding of what she needs and wants in the moment has grown ever so much. My comfort with my own sexuality has grown tremendously, as has my ability to provide pleasure for my partner. I am never overwhelmed by my partners deep emotional releases, and rarely in doubt as to how to handle a given situation. Three years ago, I felt a real sense of despair with the aging process and my aging body. Today, at age 68, I feel strong, sensual, sexy and powerful, and really looking forward to many years of providing the feminine with oceans of pleasure! I know that Amber has had her own difficult journey around these issues, which makes her coaching that much more authentic and heart-centered. You could not ask for a more loving and caring mentor, who sees your own inner Divine nature, and wants to help you express it. read more
