It is impossible to write a review here that would fully convey how wonderful our experience with Bethany was/is. I am a planner, a researcher, a natural questioner and a person who hopes for the best but always wants to know contingency plans. My husband is a, "We'll follow our intuition and figure it out when the time comes" kind of guy. You can see where this may have caused some stress for both of us. I had a lot of interest in a having a doula from the start but I never approached the topic with my husband because I thought it would be a nonstarter. Boy did he prove me wrong! One night, we were watching The Business of Being Born and after they mentioned something about doula he asked, "Have you thought about having a doula? Maybe that would be good for us?" YES YES YES! Instantly I got on my phone and searched the internet for options. A few days later we met with Bethany.
On the drive over my husband admitted that he was excited to hear about what she does but that he was worried he wouldn't have a role during the birth. Upon sitting down with Bethany and casually chatting she instantly addressed all of his concerns without him having to even bring it up. It's like she was in our heads. During the pregnancy and our pre-birth meetings Bethany was a neutral sounding board, an attentive listener, and endlessly supportive that we could have the birth that we were envisioning.
During the last month of our pregnancy we got some surprising news that our baby was perfectly healthy but little. Very little. We would most likely be induced and I was put on bed rest starting immediately. Our minds started racing and I was positive that all our plans and goals for this birth were out the window. Bethany was on call, ready at any moment for advice, reminders that there are always options and of course to meet us at the Birthing Center if needed.
The birth, in fact, was more transformative, empowering and 'perfect' than we could have ever hoped for. This was largely in part not only to Bethany's presence during the actual event, but her helping us maintain proper focus and headspace leading up to it.
All this to say, Bethany's evidence based approach to pregnancy and birth, deep knowledge of comfort measures during birth, compassion for the process, professionalism with the other care providers, calming spirit and general enthusiasm for helping new families is impressive. We would highly recommend Bethany to any parents to be, in fact we already have :)
She also takes photos if you would like and they are amazing!
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