My children and I were living in a domestic violence situation that was progressively getting…read moreworse. After the police being called to our home several times, my local police department referred me to the Brighter Tomorrows shelter. With nowhere to turn, and no family to rely on, I made the call for help. The two women I dealt with on the hotline were warm, friendly, and understanding.
We lived in the homeless shelter for a few months. The rules and restrictions were tough to abide by, but understandably so. They had to keep it safe for everyone that came through the door. There are people from all walks of life and backgrounds seeking help from the shelter.
The shelter offered an abundance of food for everyone that was to reside in the shelter, and not just the basic nutritional, school lunch, inedible type of food. We had food a plenty! We frequently received even finer imported foods as donations. I will never forget the French imported truffle mushroom cheese...WOW! Many of us seek comfort in food, and the shelter made sure there was always an abundance of food to go around for every resident.
The case managers helped me place my children back into school and gave them uniforms to attend their schools. They also helped other women find employment, and even gave them clothing allowances to purchase interview attire. The children were also given toys, and taken to children's events together to take their minds off of everything. Churches often provided Spa days to the women. This was a HUGE stress reliever!
There were a few women that tried to make the best of turning to a homeless shelter for assistance, like myself. After a few months of residing in the shelter, I interviewed for the chance at being a part of the transitional housing program Brighter Tomorrows also had to offer. This was, by far, the best decision I've made in my life.
Brighter Tomorrows provided us our very own, fully furnished, apartment to call our own, for nearly two whole years. It was stocked full of food, and even had a washer and dryer. During our stay, we were provided a wide variety of resources to help reestablish my footing into the world as a single mom.
We had the most caring Case Manager named Larry Matthews that supported us through every struggle, need, and milestone. When we faced adversities, he did everything in his power to ensure we were taken care of. He was there for us every step of the way, to encourage and support. He was also a great role model to my son, who was in need of a positive male leader to look up to. Larry was instrumental in me becoming a successful graduate of the transitional program offered by Brighter Tomorrows.
My children and I were provided free counseling to help us with our emotional struggles of the divorce, and all of the new surroundings we were in. We had access to a donation room any day needed. This donation room was always a room full of surprises. We never knew what we would find in there, and good finds were much to be had.
Every week, mandatory classes were provided. Life Skills classes offered information on how to do a variety of things in life, such as cooking, saving money at the grocery store, how to make cost effective meals. Most importantly, they taught us how to break the generational oppressions, and provide a better life for my children. We had classes on parenting. These classes helped me learn how to do activities with my kids on a budget, disciplinary suggestions, and how to create a loving environment.
My favorite class was Financial Literacy. The skills I learned in this class will follow me for the rest of my days. I learned how to track my spending, and how to play the game of the credit world that we live in. I now know how to raise my credit score, without falling into a credit war. I managed to not only pay off all of my debt while in the program, but was also able to save enough money to put a nice down payment on a home if needed. This amount was above the amount paid to my attorney for a lengthy and costly divorce attorney. Fortunately for me, I was awarded the house during the divorce, where my children and I continue to reside.
Brighter Tomorrows was clearly one of the greatest blessings in my life. They turned the hopeless into the fortunate, and provided all the tools to get there. Thank you.