My first birth five years ago did not go as planned. I had hoped for a natural un-medicated birth. I attended the 6 week pre-natal classes at Sutter, had a great family doctor who was supported of my wishes and a sister by my side who had just given birth to her 5th child, I figured that was all I needed...I was so very ignorant to how hospital births work. At 12 days past my due date I reluctantly agreed to an induction (hind sight, I would have waited until it was truly medically necessary). 36 hours and many many interventions later, I was on an operating table having a C-section. I couldn't believe this had happened to me. I had read all about the 'cascade of interventions' and the high probability of C-sections these days, but I honestly didn't think it would happen to me. Although I was elated to meet my beautiful baby, and my C-section was not a traumatic experience or anything, I was visibly deflated for not being able to bring my baby into the world the way I had hoped. I knew from that day, my second go at this would be different...
Fast forward 4 years and I was pregnant and ready to try this again, but this time I would NOT be ignorant and I would do everything in my power to VBAC this baby naturally. I explored the possibility of a home birth but for several reasons that was not the best option for me at the time, so I opted for the most VBAC friendly OB I could find (Dr. Alexandra Klikoff) and a GREAT doula, enter Sabine Omvik. After speaking with Sabine the first time, I knew she was the right fit for me. Clam, sincere, and she truly listened to me. When interviewing other doulas and midwives, I often felt like they had an agenda already and a set idea of what birth should be. Sabine listened to me, she provided me additional information, but never pushed or made me feel bad if I went another way. She met with us before the birth to get to know me and my husband better and provided relaxation techniques. When my labor seemed to be getting started, she was on the phone with me giving me tips on how to help the labor get going (this was at 9 days past due...again). When my husband called her to come once active labor had started, she was there in a flash (at 5am in the morning!). Her presence at my house helping me and my husband was incredible. She provided a sense of calm and reassurance and I just felt like I didn't have to worry. Once it was time to head to the hospital, she was right there with us the whole time. Luckily, I had a great nurse at the hospital (Dominican) who was very supportive of my desire to have a natural VBAC and her and the on-call OB read and followed my birth plan with respect (Oh, Sabine also helped me with the birth plan - which was great!). During transition, when the contractions were so strong and you are walking that line where you just feel like you can't do it any more, she was right there calmly saying exactly what I needed to hear to keep me going. 3.5 hours after arriving at the hospital I gave birth to my 10+ lbs baby ..all natural VBAC, 10 days post date...to say I was on cloud 9 is an understatement. This was the birth experience I had dreamed of, prayed for, worked for, and it happened. I still to this day (almost 1 year later) feel an incredible sense of empowerment from this birth. It heeled me. Sabine is an incredible woman doing incredible work. I can't recommend her highly enough. read more