The Meadows saved my life. I am a gambling addict and have struggled with depression for the past…read moredecade. Last September my wife and a group of friends had an intervention and they sent me here for 45 days. At first I was reluctant becuase it was longer than other rehab centers, in a different state, and expensive. I fear if I hadn't gone to the Meadows, perhaps I might have stopped gambling for a while, but I wouldn't have been forced to deal with childhood issues that were at the core of my depression and addiction. The staff were fantastic and sympathetic, AND they didn't take any crap, or allow me to be defensive, or manipulative, or hide in a corner and refuse to deal with my issues. It was tough love and, as an addict who is really good at dodging reality, it was exactly what I needed.
When I read all the reviews, I was scared to go becuase of the sheer number of bad reviews, but after having spent six weeks there, the only explanation I have for the bad reviews is that some people hadn't hit rock bottom yet. Just like we chant in our 12-step meetings, "it works if you work it." It's really as simple as that. Most things in life are, right? If you're truly ready to be ushered out of your darkness and pain, this is THE place for you.
But the work doesn't stop after leaving The Meadows. I stepped down into an IOP three times a week, weekly therapy, weekly couples' therapy, and my 12-step meetings. As they told me when I left, recovery is a part-time job, and they were right. I'll be an addict for life, and I'm okay with that, but I won't be depressed for life. I learned the skills to accept myself for who I am, and to assume the best of others. At the end of the day, we're all just doing the best we can. Sadly, though, that's often not good enough when we're in the clutches of depression and/or addiction. So, if you need a lifeline, call The Meadows.
Cade N.