Alright, this is a more "censored" review than my original one which got removed for violation…read more
Please don't enroll your special ed. child to the Communication Development program at Andrew if they've had a toxic relationship with a certain student at the previous school because I've had a similar horrible experience in all my 4 years there. I had to deal with an autistic male student named "Timothy E. Kelly Jr." aka "TK". He constantly intimidated, scared and harassed me every time we saw each other (by smiling and waving only at me). He has a pointed look on his face, his eyes are very far apart, is hunchbacked, has a voice always sounding like inhaling helium, and is an alien looking thing. I was always mentally, verbally and emotionally abused by that student which was extremely dehumanizing.
Almost every time I had an issue with him and trying to protect myself from him, CD staff always framed me by written me up, the deans blamed and accused me for bullying him, punished me with detentions, and they abused me by not believing me, never letting me speak up and taking that student's side, and I felt too weak to talk out to them that I was innocent. The social worker, Abigail Kellerman also offered me privs of watching movies in her office if I don't misbehave around him but I refused 'cause it wasn't my fault and I was the one being abused, but she still didn't believe me. I used to be super anxious every night about seeing him (even a little) and often cried myself to sleep, and have nightmares and flashbacks that would make me wake up screaming! I even often thought of running away and committing su*c*de.
The reason why I always felt mental pain when he smiled and waved at me is because he was forcing me to still be friends with him which I never wanted to be again. He just couldn't get over with that, and ignoring him has never worked for me. Everyone has got the right to be friends with whoever they want. Mrs. Kellerman even snapped "I DON'T CARE!" at me at one point due to a chalk activity incident I've done all because of seeing TK with me! I've graduated from this HS in 2020, which was the year Covid-19 hit, and felt lucky that I didn't need to graduate with him, until we both started going back in person to the Transition Program in Orland! I am a strong and friendly young woman, and sure don't want any other students to go through what I've gone through. I always hate taking deep breaths and being told to calm down because they are triggers to me, and aren't enough for me to solve any problem. Reporting TK to the police was never even an option because I was scared that they would doubt me too, just like the staff. Bullying, constant annoyance and harassments should always be taken very seriously in this U.S. state and everywhere. It should even be a crime. No student in this world should go to school scared, anxious and targeted by bullies.
Today, I'm attending and studying at Moraine Valley Community College for a certificate, and for starting in late-August not because I'm stupid, because I want to listen to my emotions and inner voice.
And sorry about my misunderstanding on Hinsdale's HS district where they too start in mid-August and their calendar was changed for a few years because they needed to accommodate construction. I'd still like my petition to be signed to change IL schools' calendars to starting in late-August, though (like when I attended Orland School District 135).
Don't be a silent victim. Speak up no matter what (even if you're non-verbal, or even if you'll get a detention anyway).